Messages By: angeden

I understand about addiction but what I do not understand is her not taking responsibility for driving while she drinks.  After the first few times why is she not telling herself that driving while I am drinking is wrong therefore when I do drink I will 1. take a cab 2. give my keys to a designated driver or 3. walk!!  Too many excuses nowadays not enough sucking it up and taking responsibility for their actions.  Maybe I am missing the mark somewhere.

Although Dr. Phil's house is called the House Of Hatred I don't really believe that is the case.  I found from watching them that half the house base their opinions as a defensive mechanism on how they are treated and the others base it on a general misconception of their importance in this world. Once they realize we are all equal, and I mean that, and we are all entitled to respect, love and understanding the better off this world will be.  I think John doesn't take a shower because it gives him a tool to use against those who continually insult him.  As for the racist, what low self esteem he must have to believe the color of his skin makes him better than others.  I hope the lessons he needs to learn are done swiftly and they take.  Repairing this world can be done one person at a time.  Dr. Phil is definitely trying that.  As far as the black woman who is so angry I hope she can find some peace as living angry all the time your life just passes you by.  As for the other 2 females they have issues but I am hoping they also learn lessons about themselves and how to be tolerant of others.  I am looking forward to tomorrow's show.

After watching Friday's show doubts have been raised and I personally feel for the safety of the child the father  not see her at all.  Dr. Phil is amazing and seems to be very professional and very good at doing and what is best for the little girl.  Supervised visits are almost as good as him not seeing the little girl at all.  As well, I felt his wife was hiding something and her hatred of the mother and grandmother was very obvious.

I usually don't like when a camera is on because the people are aware of it and are actually on their best behavior or like the mother and grandmother trying to get Kalie to say what she probably already said off camera.  I guess what I am saying is I believe the father is hurting the little girl and if he is I really hope Dr. Phil finds out the truth.

One other thing I noticed was the comment about Kalie sometimes calling her mom by her given name.  I suspect when she is at her father's house she cannot call her mom (mom) and resorts to calling her by her first name.  That I suspect is from the wife.

I hope everything works out for the little girl.  No matter the outcome from the lie detector test I believe he hurt that little girl (as he put it he only loves her)although he doesn't believe he hurt her at all.

I expected a bit more finality with respect to the father.  Clearly he is guilty and there is enough circumstantial evidence and witness who will state the behavior that is going on.  All the signs are clear that Jeremy is a pedophile and clearly needs to stay away from his daughter.  Even his wife seemed very hesitant with respect to saying he is not guilty of what he being accused of.  I also found the lifestyles of the others very telling as well. Pregnant wife who smokes and drinks, ex wife who supposedly does drugs and sleeps around a lot.  I think Jeremy manipulates these woman and likes to get them pregnant so he has a young sexual partner at hand at all times.  That man clearly needs to be in jail.  Please do an early follow up.  We sometimes have to wait for a long time for updates but this show was extremely stressful and mentally draining.  Therefore, please keep us posted.

Thank you.