I am 22 years old, married for a little over 2 years. I have 2 kids, a 2 yr old and an almost 1 yr old. So here's the deal with me. I had my son when I was 20 and met my husband while I was pregnant. We spent most of our relationship being very far away from eachother and I thought that it was a good thing bc we were spending our time talking instead of being physical with eachother. So we got married when my son was 3 months old and he is a very good father to him. After being married about a year we got pregnant and had my daughter. Now things are ok, but they could be better. Since we were already parents when we got married and we are very young, the parent thing completely took over! He is constantly bugging me about sex and I never want to have it. By the end of the day I am exhausted from chasing after 2 kids that I want nothing to do with him at all. And when he tries to cuddle with me, I push him away bc once again I am trying to sleep and I feel very uncomfortable with him all over me. Im not big on affection and he is so we are constantly butting heads. We are at the point of not being physical whatsoever and honestly I dont even miss sex! I mean he isnt bad at it or anything, so I dont know what my problem is!!! Is it me? Is it him? I love my husband very much and I want to make this marriage last a lifetime, but I know if things dont change then the lifetime part might not be very realistic. I know there are alot of things that we did that we shouldnt have. I know that we shouldnt have rushed into a marriage and having another baby. I know that we went about it all wrong. But the truth is, we're here now so how do I make sure that even though we made mistakes, we can stand here today and have a happy marriage and family.
