Messages By: wonders

WOW, Christy craves and lies for attention and sad to say that this time she got national coverage!!  I do somewhat question the thinking of the show putting this on a segment.  There are serious mental issues going on and maybe the lie detector tests should have been done prior to the taping of the show. 

It saddens me to see this people having to defend themselves yet again and now on national TV against charges that have been unproven.  I was always told .... "you can't prove a negative". 

Enough said....... I don't want to give Christy anymore air time but would like to repeat the idea that a lie detector test should have been done priot to taping!!!

Remember the show?  The computer in question was in Christie and her computer savy husbands hands for several months before being turned over.  And... there was a major news story on someone purchasing a computer at a major outlet and found porn on it once they set it up at home.  The DA and other law enforcement people questioned the chain of evidence!!!  IT WAS NOT FOUND that Stacey's husband put them there. 

Christie is not a leader I would want!  Making accusations and demanding that the findings prove you right is not a leader, it is a dictator.  This was investigated and she won't accept the findings.  I feel sorry for all family members involved.  But I would hate to think someone like Christie could decide what is right or wrong in any given household based on her own thinking.

IF she was abused she would be better served at this point to seek counseling to deal with the issues that still follow her in her daily life.  As to her being there for her sister during the seperation...... In any family things are said during these martial frays that are exagerated and should be taken as that.  Stacey was hurt and vunerable and looked to Christie for support.  NOT to have her life destroyed.

Child abuse is a very serious issue and should not be taken lightly and I don't.  But I do question Christies motives in going on this show.  She is still demanding to be RIGHT!! 

I have to respond to myself here!  I just reread todays show info and it never did say what this DVD was called.  If it was so terrible or questionable how come we didn't get more info on it.  It was implied that it had females of questionable age on it but no one ever said what the findings were.  In my mother in laws eyes the movie  Porky's was porn but.......... guess that shows how everyone sees things differently.

But mostly I just want to say that there is a lot of speculation and comments made here in chat that I have gone back and reviewed todays show to verify and people.....................watch it again and again and again if needed before posting.

Dear Christy,

Since you have posted here you must be reading this.  So a question to answer for us is....... "what does your obvious rage and hate toward your sister have to do with family violence"?

The one person who showed obvious signs of anger and hate was yourself.  You seem barely in control of your anger toward your sister, the DA, the Child and Family Service people, etc. as graphically shown when Dr. Phil read your venomous letter to the DA. 

In your campaign to ruin the lives of your sisters family what are you showing your family?  How to hate?  How to seek retribution?  How to persecute someone who has not been prosecuted according to your guidelines? 

It never said if you had children yourself Christy but I surely wonder if you do who is taking care of their needs both physical and mentally?  Who hugs them and holds them while you are out being the family martyr?  Who tells them sweet calming bedtime stories?  Do you rant about this type of family drama to them?  Do they see you in your pursuit of what you call the truth?  What are you teaching them with your behavior?

I am sad for you and hope you find the help you need soon before you loose more of the family than you have.

I am not saying that abuse does not happen and it takes many forms.  I know the statistics very well thank you.  However, your comments to my letter to Christy does not answer what I asked her.  The abuse of children does not begin and end with sexual abuse.  The forms are many, the results are varied. 

If Christy truly believes Stacey's children are being abused then why does it now seem she will continue this abuse by placing her own mental anguish so squarely on her neices shoulders as she did in todays show.  The sisters are both adults but that child on the show today was AGAIN victimized by the aunt.  Did Christy even once consider what her actions and her sisters actions on the show today do to that child?  For that matter did Dr. Phil even consider removing her from the verbal assualt going on all around her.  Even her uncle sitting next to her argued with her during the show.

Let's protect the children........ and not have them in the middle like she was today!

I love to follow your quotes!!!  You go girl!!

And also......... did you see see sweet concerned auntie Christy look at her distraught niece in the front row with love, concern, affection and regret for what she was putting her through?

I didn't - hope someone did

Purple and I and ever so many others see the writing on the wall here.  Just remember it is your AUNT who needs help.  Hopefully you and the family can guide her to where she can get it.  It's not about you or your mom and dad.  It's a problem Aunt Christy needs someone in the family to help her with.  Find a good clinic or private counselor in her area that can help her.  I am sure Dr. Phil will pass along the info so you don't have to have contact with her.

You need know your parents love you, your siblings love you and no matter what people say in here or anywhere else you have that unconditional love.  And find someone that you yourself feels safe in sharing feelings, fears, concerns with but not a family matter.  Someone outside the family who can step back and see things as they really are.  And don't be mad at the lies being told.... they are just another cry for attention from the person telling them. 

I am not a pervert but the mom of 4 girls who hate to see any of you kids in the middle of this and would love to arrange a calm, loving home environment to hide out in until this is all over.  If i could protect you from what was charged and hten found as groundless and the contiuing behavior of your aunt i would hide you out here!!!  I know that isn't possible but it's halloween and time to bake cookies and make popcorn balls and go to the apple orchard.  This is what you need in your young lives...................not some aunt screaming at you about how bad you parents are.,,,,,,  Bring the mom and pop and hide out here........... Hay rides galore, apple butter making, cider making, caramel apples need to go on stick!!!  We can put ya all working together as a family and let the other melt away for a bit!   Good Luck to kiddo - you are the ones i think of in this mess..