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October 26, 2006, 8:40 pm PDT

BRAVO and well said...

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Indians, there's a reason why, in a court of law, you aren't supposed to assume anything if the defendant does not take the stand.  YOU DON'T KNOW WHY the father wasn't on stage today. Don't assume it means he's guilty.  There could be many reasons he is not there. 

 

If Stacy's income from her midwife job has been compromised, he might not feel he can afford taking days off from work to appear on the show. 

 

He could be ill.  For all you know he's in the hospital. They didn't say.

 

Or maybe he didn't really want all the publicity around these accusations, because he's embarrassed by them.  That wouldn't mean he was guilty.  Maybe he didn't favor the idea of going on the Dr. Phil show, because he felt they could resolve the problem privately.  You just don't know.

 

Whatever happened to the presumption of innocence?  Why are you assuming he's guilty?  The kids aren't accusing him.  His wife isn't accusing him.  The professionals who investigated are not accusing him.  The only person accusing him is a crazy sister in law who obviously has an agenda, and who is obviously bent on wrecking her sister's reputation, no matter who else gets hurt in the crossfire. 

 

He's innocent until he's proven guilty.

And to add one more thing.....

 

Why would he be there ...... he has been investigated by multiple agencies and they found the charges ungrounded and brought no charges.  He was found innocent to that extent and should feel no need to confront this sister in law further.  He does have a lot more kids at home that needed one of their parents with them with this fiasco going on over the national air-waves.

 
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November 2, 2006, 1:44 pm PST

Things that make ya go HMMMMMMMMMMM

Ok who really needs the counseling here?  A woman with this guy for 9 years and THEN MARRIES HIM???   He is right that he was this way before she married him and hasn't changed.  I hope she does get the counseling Dr. Phil offered.  She enables his behavior just as much as if he were a drinker or drug user.  He does it because he can and good luck to him and for those women who allow him to use them........... the best part of the show is exposing his attitude toward women.  I agree with Dr. Phil that he is immature but also I think very insecure and needs women "wanting" him as validation for his existence.

 

To the wife - - - Move him out, move on and most definitely get the counseling that will hopefully let you understand why you would let this continue in your life for 9 years.  Your children see his behavior and you are raising another generation of his kind if you allow it to be seen as your acceptance of his actions.

 

Good luck!

 
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November 3, 2006, 3:13 pm PST

Take a deep breath!!!

If someone was accusing me of what Jeremy is being accused of I WOULD NOT ONLY TAKE MY TIME ANSWERING ANY AND ALL QUESTIONS BUT........... MY ATTORNEY WOULD BE NEXT TO ME!!!!

Come on people!!!!  I don't know if he is guilty or not but todays show certainly did NOT give any of us enough FACTS to make that judgment.  IF the proper authorities have been contacted by the mother and an investigation done by them then why do we all think can find me guilty by the ravings of the mother and grandmother who are more interested in persecuting him than taking care of the child. 

 

IF he is guilty I have to say that the mother and grandmother need to be the last people helping this small innocent child readjust to a normal life!!!  I was appalled by their behavior.  Their complete denial of their role in triggering certain reactions for this child is sad.  My stepdaughter has only recently told us that her mother used to make her feel so guilty when she came to visit us that she would cry not wanting to come to us just to please her mother and avoid her mothers rantings at HOW she could want to spend time with "us".   Thank god this current trend of ex spouses screaming "Child Abuse"  to punish the other parent was not in fashion then or we may have been facing a similar battle.

 

 Both parents, the new wife and the grandmother all need to seek counseling but as with many things in life........... if you don't realize that you need the help you don't receive the benefits.

 

Whoever is was that talked about the lie detector tests I want to thank you for the info.  I was aware of info but so glad to see if posted here.  Wonder if the Salem witch trials would have been any different if the had used this technology then.............. I doubt it!!!

 

 
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November 6, 2006, 4:15 pm PST

Good Luck finding an attorney Jeremy

After fridays I posted a message and .................... Well Jeremy - after your actions during the course of these shows good luck finding an attorney!!  Any lawyer who would take your case (other than a public defender who has no choice in the matter) ought to be brought in for counseling also!!!

 

I will never cease to be amazed at how people can so blatantly lie and make excuses and try to refocus the finger of blame when caught so dramatically in their own lies.  Jeremy's attitude is beyond denial.  I have heard Dr. Phil say before that he would "put someone under the jail" if he found out these kind of things about them.  Well I am willing to come and help lift the corner of the building while he is stuffed under it!!!

 

 
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November 6, 2006, 4:17 pm PST

Only grandmother shed a tear at the news!!

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If protecting this child from unsuitable parents is wrong, than I am sooooo wrong. This mother does not care about her child. She is using the child as ammo against the child's father.
How sad that the mother only had rage against her ex.  While her mother sobbed and understood the child was the important issue!!!   Neither parent should have that child!
 
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November 14, 2006, 1:25 pm PST

Why not follow the Number ONE rule?

The number rule for anyone to get along I think is this...........

 

Stop the bickering over what happened yesterday, last week, last month, last year or in your childhoods!!!!   Most of this unhappiness comes from when people won't look at where they want to be but insist on picking at old wounds.  I think there are things in all our lives that we would do differently if we could go back in time.  To dwell on these past issues will never allow them to get to where they want to be. 

 

They are both childish and unable or unwilling to move on with their lives........  how sad!!

 

A good trick is to think of it as planning a driving vacation.... you will map out where you GOING next, not where you just came from.....     But that's only my thinking.

 
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November 15, 2006, 2:09 pm PST

cats ARE NOT people

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I think, in a perfect world, there is no such thing as too many cats...or dogs...or other animals that are cute and fuzzy. I remember a time when I came home from college we had 4 cats, 6 dogs, a persian guinea pig, a welsh pony staked out in our front yard, two ducks, a number of acquarium tanks from school (my dad was the science teacher), a cormrant took up residence by the pool and a blue parakeet flew in from nowhere...and we lived about 200 yards from the town bowling alley. On the other hand, the pony found a home on a horse farm down the road, one of the ducks went to live at Homossassa Springs, the parakeet died, the cormrant decided it didn't like chlorinated water and cooked fish so it left, and the acquariums went back to school once the holidays were over.

 

I love animals with a passion and I understand that lady deeply. I have two cats at present, having just found homes for three strays this summer. I tend to take in every stray that shows up  and find a home for it. Mom used to say we ran a halfway house for strays. I understand the need to take care of them and the heart break at the very idea of letting them fend for themselves in cold or bad weather, go hungry or unloved and it breaks my heart to see this lady do this. While I do, as stated, understand how she feels, she needs to see that unless she can afford to hire people to help with feeding, watering, grooming, vaccinating, spaying, neutering, etc., she is doing these babies a grave injustice. Contrary to popular belief, cats are not as independent as you might think. They need love and attention and they need brushing on a regular basis, especially the long-haired ones, because of the fur balls.  She needs to either move the cats to another, legal area and hire people to properly take care of them, or find homes for most of them, though I wouldn't limit her to four if she can handle them decently.

 

On the other hand, if her neighbors are calling Animal Control behind her back or feeding them antifreeze to poison them, then her neighbors ought to be made to drink the stuff and see how it makes them feel. I may agree that she has too many cats and too little assistance to take care of them, but I do not hold with any kind of animal cruelty at all. You think it's okay to poison animals just because you don't like them? You drink the poison. Do you beat your pets? Let somebody beat you and see how you like it. See how you would like being tossed out a car window or left out in 30 degree weather in the rain.

 

So while I agree that the lady needs to get some help with her cats, I also strongly say that her neighbors better leave them alone and not hurt them. For one thing, this lady obviously feels that nobody can take better care of them than she can or love them more.  I understand that feeling because I feel the same way and lose sleep over any I see that I think need loving.;

If you love animals as you profess so much then you should learn that pets are NOT PEOPLE, they are not YOUR BABIES!!!   You are not making them happy or doing the right thing by them when you treat them as little humans.   If you insist on thinking all animals can be your pets and that your pets are people I might recommend not ordering a steak anywhere lol!

 

 
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November 28, 2006, 2:35 pm PST

Did He say CALM IT DOWN??

CALM IT DOWN????  

How does this third NATIONAL airing of this situation CALM IT DOWN.  I would guess that this 3rd show in a series reached far more people than the picketing, flier passing out or web site that Dr. Phil questioned mother and grandmother about. 

 

I for one am sick of this subject being tried on a "TALK SHOW" with no resolution or protection of that Child!!!!!!

 

Neither parent or grandmother should have custody of the child and visitation should be monitored with all concerned!!!  This child is the only one I care about and I do NOT want to see Jeremy's smug face of the Kayle's mother ranting anymore.

 

I hope the next time this topic is shown on Dr. Phil it is to say that Kaylee is in a safe home, receiving whatever help she needs to cope with the situation and mental issues that BOTH parents have inflicted on her. 

 

Dr. Phil you should start charging Jeremy for giving him air time.  He loves being in the limelight and so do the mother and grandmother - I don't believe any of them and wish not to see them again!!!

 

SAVE KAYLEE AND FORGET THE ATTENTION DEMANDING PARENTS!!!

 

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