Messages By: shetypes

BUT: there is times that when someone gets envolved it

does help.  The girls did say often they did not want to

keep living that way?  Not helping at this point means

a sure death soon? 

     I am very sorry about your Son, I don't think you said

anything anyone should be angry about.  There is a time to

stand up and take action over those hurting themself.

If it's kicking them out, stop listening to excuses or

calling the police on them, which is worse?

Forcing something or doing nothing?  One can end up with

death other a chance no matter how slim it is?

The Father, the Mother or whoever, the reply is just obsurd!

The child is innocent and why would such a strong relationship

have the child crying at being left alone for a few minutes with

a Father she 'Adores'? while Step-Mother gets mail?

Whoever is guilty or not in all of it, in whatever part they may

have had a hand in, the child is the only Innocent one!

Please have a heart for the child first, let the adults wade

in thier own battles and others stand up for this little girl?

KNOW THIS: Sexual offenders do not see what they

are doing as HURTING?

There is more to a victim than you can see in a small child,

it shows as they grow.  The protectors usually add to the

pain and shame.  I have one stand: THE CHILD.

~~~~THAT IS NOW ALL THERE IS TO IT! ~~~~~

I feel no matter which method any parents use it is always the

parents that give the most input to a child learning or not.

Many children are in public schools and failing the most

fundamentals like Math and English?  I am sure there is a few

also failing these at home schools.  It is why they have the periodic

testing to find out where the children are at?

   I also think it is absurd that in the public schools before the testing

the children are given focused teaching 'to pass that test'!

Random testing for both would prove weather any teacher in public

schools and home schooling is giving each individual what they need?

As like so many things in our culture, HOW a child is raised does not

always predict what happens to them in society or thier social skills.

There is those who in school was very popular, good grades and good

parents that can go bad just like there is those who had bad grades, not

popular and unhealthy parents that succeeded well to great members of

our society.

                      The most important things  a parent gives thier children is Love,

Structure, Consistant rules to function in rules and education.

Our laws need to protect ALL children including those home schooled, not

in school at all and in public schools.  Thus giving random tests to schools

which contains material that a teacher does not know is contained in it,

simple questions that give a look into how the child feels about life and

learning and logic solving problems would solve alot of the problems in

them all.    I cheer on the parents so involved with their kids.

I agree, it is not bad to home school.  I do have a problem with the

Mother sitting there still breast feeding a 5 year old and giving her a

bottle, she needs educated to tooth decay and that breast feeding

as awesome as it is, I breast fed mine, is for infants, babies and even

a toddler but then the milk is no more than a weekly vitamin.

She also did not seem to give proper structure which teaches a child

about self control nor did she seem to understand that a child does

not have the ability to decision making skills unless taught them and

learning through being given it?

   ALL children need protected and tested to find what is going on for

sure and certainly the government giving testing that shows it all

without a parent or teacher preping them for the test would show more.

Not ALL of anything is all right or all wrong All has problems?

I'd actually dare say a home schooled child passing the

tests show much higher intelligence.  Schools make

sure they spend at least a week preparing the students

for what they KNOW is on them tests to pass them so

the school can get required and more funds for thier school.

Politics is the factor not the children?

After the testing it goes back to the usual school days and

YES many children get left behind because of inability to adapt

in school for many reasons and a unhealthy home life?

I am sure home schooled has a few too but a parent willing

to give the home schooling shows more interest than most parents?

I so agree, the basic life of who a child would be begins at birth

and continues with the parents and every person and event

they encounter.  I also think there is many

troubled children who found a savior in a teacher at some

point in their life.             Neither is all bad.

What happens at home can affect a child profoundly and no

manner of schooling can cure a unhealthy home life.

  What we seen on the show today does not define what

most who home school do!   This Mother does not have

a well balanced life going on for those children.  Obviously

a child receiveing a tooth roting, deforming bottle at 5 proves that.

Aww come one: blaming a Mom is way too easy?

It takes the true blame away from the real problem,

don't you think?  Our society has streets with

way too easy access to drugs, prostitution and

crimes?  Who supplies the drugs? who pays the

prostitutes and who was helping this Mother?

She had to work which requires sleep?

She is admitting to problems and is tormented

to no end from this!  It is way too easy to blame,

of course she made mistakes all parents do.

As of yet I have not seen the Father do what he

needed to do?  Two parents create a child!

It takes a village to raise a child!

Lets learn, look out for troubled kids and see

the real enemies out there?  huh?

I posted a reply BUT, it is just a reply, consider for a second

how much winning drugs does?  Alot!  We are all part of a society

that has drugs ruling the streets, drug dealers everyewhere, richer

hiden respectable people?  Blaming the Mother is way too easy.

Of course she made mistakes, most do, especially when they

work and need to sleep?  Where is the insulting Father? He said

Mother brought him two 'insult to his girls, insert here" , she

brought to him?  Hahaha, well where was he at through much

of this? Wasn't it said he took them for a bit? Gave them up for

a lost cause?  Why would you be so hard on a Mom that admits

to mistakes and so incredibly hurt seeing her daughters messed

up like that?  Many factors play a role in raising children? Income

can dictate a bad or good neighborhood, work hours, other parents

help and the peer problems.  A parent can't always watch kids.

Lets forget the blame game for a minute and put our thoughts into

the many self-injurers like these two girls and stop letting our

political leaders dictate what subjects we really wanted on the ballots

instead?  Get more help to single Mothers that have missing fathers in the

childrens lives?  Get more police out there to crack down on drugs and

when they do pick up a young addict like this, get them clean and in

healthy programs?  Have more avenues for someone like this Mom

to get more hlep?  Next generation on the way will probably be born addicted?

The Mom aint perfect and has faults, many do!

Those girls are in trouble-----THATS THE ISSUE, whats the reasons?

In Michigan, where I am also from, this Mother refusing

visitations would mean that the Father would be the

one to have this child for that 15 days AND use that

to try to get custody!!!!

She did what she had no choice but to do.

Note that he stopped taking medication a week before and had consumed

alcohol before the tests, the police conducting the test did not score on the

issues of deception on that test and they did not adhere to standard protocol

on questioning for sexual abuse beyond limited 'touching'?

Michigan has serious issues in a political field, I am not suprprised

to see something was done to protect other professionals and to

side with anyone against a family who has ticked them off.