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November 8, 2006, 2:30 pm PST

"urban cougars"

I'm 34 and my husband is 22.  I'm a stay at home mom, I have two daughters from a previous marriage, they are 12 and 15.  We also have a son that is 14 months old. I never expected him to move into my life or the girls lives when I met him 3 1/2 years ago.  I was living with my dad at the time with my two girls and working minimum wage jobs and going to college; he was going to a technical college and living in an apartment with 2 roommates and making minimum wage.  We met, started dating, and then one thing led to another.  When he was offered a job 500 miles away from where he lived and where we lived, we all moved together and have been totally happy ever since.  He works at his trade and I stay home with our son and the girls.  They call him Dad, and he thinks of them as his daughters.  Of course it was a bit odd for the girls at first, especially the older one, but after 2 1/2 of living together as a family things work like any biological family.  See my girls are fortunate to have him because their father has not seen them or been in contact with them in nearly 7 years now.  My point is, if this works for them both....the 24 yr old and the 39 year old..... then by all means go for it.  But watching this show, it didnt seem like the guy was in this for the long haul and it seems like she wants him to be more grown up than he is ready to be. 
 
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April 26, 2008, 12:35 pm PDT

whatever

It's a shame that its such a huge topic for older women to date younger men when men have been doing th same thing or EONS basically. Ohhhh but an older guy with a younger girl is considered a "Stud" or whatever and the older woman is called a cougar.....a vicious, hunting feline.  How nice.  And not every younger guy leaves when the woman gets older.  My mom(57) and step-dad(43) are 12 years apart and have been married 20 years.  My husband and I are 12 years apart and he's more of a man and provider than my ex-husband who was 5 years older than me!   Just saying age is just a number; it doesn't outline how a person will act.

 

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