Messages By: candygirl55

After watching the first segment of the show, I cried. I was sitting there with my 6 1/2 month old daughter thinking how can anyone ever do this to a child. Watching the grandfather made me so enraged! He showed no emotion, no sympathy for his actions, no empathy for the family and his wife sat there acting the same. It just boggles me how a human being can do such a thing and expect it to be ok after two years. It would NEVER be ok. I would never ever advise the victim of sexual abuse to ever be forced or be re-introduced to the sole person who stole their innocence and intentionally hurt them just to get a little self sexual gratification. I just can not get the picture out of my head of the grandfather speaking. He showed no emotion! Not even when Dr. Phil showed them the pictures that the little girl drew. As far as I am concerned, the grandmother is just as guilty. Shame on her for sweeping this under the rug and then for thinking that it can be solved within the family?!?! They should never ever be allowed to have anything to do with the little girl ever again, they made their beds now they have to lay in them. I do not care what they feel was the appropriate thing to do based on their "generational beliefs" they are how old? all it takes is one brain cell to realize that what they did was 100% wrong!

That is too bad that this lady, who spent like 100,000.00 on surgery, couldn't have taken that money and put it somewhere useful. Like how about a savings account for her children or for college? I agree with the person who said that growing old is unavoidable and growing up is optional. I don't see anything wrong w/ cosmetic surgery, but $100,000 worth is ridiculous. And trying to keep up looking like your 21 yr. old daughter? If that is her picture I saw on this site for the show, then she looks far from a 21 yr. old! She looks almost non-human. And that is what an excessive amount of cosmetic surgery can do to a person, especially in the face as it is so delicate. Your face is hard to hide. and some things done badly can't be reversed or restored to the way it was before no matter how much surgery or money you have.

I, like some others on here, recently started talking to my ex- and first love again. We dated back in highschool in '01 for some time. Then he joined the military and every time he came back we were off and on again, but also seeing other people. Then I met my now husband in '03. Me and him weren't even dating, just "seeing each other", and my ex-tried to get back w/ me but I told him no. Now me and my husband have been married for a year and have a 6 mo. old beautiful little girl, and we fight every single day. A few months or so ago, I'm on myspace.com and happened to find his profile on a friend's profile. I felt a flutter in my stomach and contacted him. We continued to talk back and forth via email for while and then stopped until I decided to post a bulletin to all my friends that my husband and I were getting a divorce and that I was back on the market. To my surprise he was one of the first ppl to write me and gave me his phone # and wanted to hang out, despite the fact that he has a "love of his life" girlfriend whom he has been w/ for quite some time I believe. I was so ready to hop on the bandwagon. We ended up hanging out, plus one of my girlfriends, a few weeks ago and he invited me to his house to watch a movie. I declined though because it was approaching me and my husband's one year anniversary that coming morning and it just felt wrong. So I have thought about him a lot and dreamt about him a lot and we've talked back and forth.

He is currently out of state visiting his g/f, but still wants to hang out a lot when he gets back. I think I'm starting to just get weirded out. I'm not a cheater. And i'm not a homewrecker. SHould I just stop talking to him completely? HELP?

Me and my husband are no longer getting a divorce and he leaves for boot camp soon. ADVICE?

Does anyone know when and if this episode will be replayed ? I watched the first one but 80% of the second one we did not get to see as there was a conference being held live by CNN about the Virginia Tech Massacre