Quote From: labelfreeI was sexually abused by my brother from age 5-13. I was also inapproipratly touched by my father. He tried sticking his tonuge down my throat and grabbing my chest right when I was starting to develope breasts and it really truly disgusted every part of me. When I was in my late 30's my oldest sister told me our Father actually molested her when she was a little girl after I gave her a book called "Secret Survivors" by Sue E. Blume it was kind of a techniqnical manual and My sis thought I had some kind of magical powers and I was able to see something in her and she came over and cried her eyes out when in actualtie I gave her the book to show her why I was so messed up!
The only thing I can say to help you to start out with that SAVED MY LIFE IS GET DR> Phil's LIFE STRAGIES.... You will see the web of lies with your own eyes.
This is very hard work.
It must be done. If you want to win at this game we call LIFE.
Be a winner...OKAY...JOIN me..YOU have to do The work as I did and the others did before me.
There are many place's here you cant vent and get help. I will be your friend.
Labelfree.....
I've never posted on a board before, so please bear with me. I can relate to many of your posts so I thought I'd start with you. You mention above that "this is very hard work", a statement I not only agree with, but am living with now. For 20 years, I've tried to convince myself that it's over, it's the past, but all I've really done is bury it with an eating disorder, living with an abusive husband, overachieving, being super mom, friend, coach, fieldhockey official - I think you get the picture. I recently started with a new therapist, who is tough, and good but I am finding it so difficult emotionally that I want to quit. When you were experiencing these times, what did you find helpful. Also, I am going to take your word and get Dr. Phil's book - how did that save your life? Sorry for rambling......
