Quote From: elffieI am not going to homeschool, I don't think it will benefit MY children. I don't think it would be healthy for them to be with me all day, they need to get out and be with other kids their age in an environment that will support that. Plus, I want them to get the best education they can get, even if that means public schools. There are lots of Merit schools in the town my children will be going to and the kids score very high on their tests.
The only difference I see between Public and Private schools is the cost. Also, that some private schools are religious based. You can find the same classes in public school without the cost. I don't think we need to push our children academically, and honestly I think it's a little too much to have a kindergardner doing 3rd grade work. Now, if they child is capable of doing it, then so be it, but I do not think it's wise to push kids while they are so young.
There is bullying and crime if private school as well. I had a friend that went to a Christian private school and the kids there did drugs and had sex on the property! Same thing that was going on in the public school system.
I don't think homeschooling really teaches responsibility. Some of the time it is not structured and it is only for a couple hours a day. Going out of the house to school reinforces responsibility and teaching the student to be liable for their actions. Sure, there were a few days when I didn't want to go to school, but I could not have stayed home. I would not be socially mature, but that is me, it could be different for others. Plus, leaving home to go to school prepared me for the real world, where you leave your house and you do what you have to do, even if you don't like it.
So it looks like public schooling for my kids.
You probably love your children more than anyone, you probably want what's best for them, and yet you don't think it would be healthy for them to be with you all day. I've heard this argument before and often wondered how people come to that conclusion.
I could argue against your other points since, while they may be valid for you, are not in most cases a cause for concern. I would like to say that most home-schoolers support your right to come to those conclusions, we just wonder why people get so defensive about their choices and in the process, feel the need to put down our choice to home-school.
KT, mom to three socially adept, articulate, responsible home-schooled young men