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November 28, 2006, 7:22 pm PST

What About the Child

Quote From: april_817

After today's show, I am beginning to wonder if those two women aren't coaching Kaylie.  I don't particularly like Jeremy, but I have to wonder.   I'm not sure if I trust any of them.  This needs to get resolved one way or another.
I think the Concern Should First be to Protect the child. When there is a smoking Gun, you need to investigate. I think at the very least there should be chaperoned visits with the father, Until there has been a through investigation. There are too many questions and a Child at Stake. Something is definately going on, and it appears with the preliminary investigation, it is Jeremy who has been untruthful. Molestors are very cunning and Manipulative. We need to first make sure the child is protected.
 
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November 28, 2006, 7:57 pm PST

Ditto

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So if this was your child, then you would rather take the chance that he might not be doing it and allow him to continue with his visitations?
Exactly. If there is visitation, they should be supervised. Why take the chance of ruining lives.
 
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November 28, 2006, 8:00 pm PST

I feel the same way

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I have followed this story about Jeremy and Kaylee, and today's show really reminded me of a terribly sad story from my home state, Oklahoma, of a beautiful little girl whom we watched on videos on our local news stations as she changed from a happy-go-lucky little girl to a little girl with casts on both legs and the light gone out of her eyes.  These images on video were captured shortly before her death at the hand of her step-father.  She had been removed from the home because of suspected abuse, and then returned to the hands of those who should be protecting and loving her only to end up dead by those very same hands.  Here is a link to read a litttle about Kelsey.  You can also search Google for Kelsey Smith-Briggs.  Dr. Phil, Child Protective Services SHOULD protect these kids, but unfortunately it does not always work out that way.  Do whatever you can, Dr. Phil, to help bring this to light and to give parents and grandparents a voice in situations like this.  Too often they are not really heard.  I'm afraid if my child was crying and accusing my ex of abusing her, I would probably take her and run.  If the law won't protect us, we must protect ourselves and our innocent children!

 

http://justiceforkelseybriggs.org/

We must protect the children until they have there own voice.
 
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November 28, 2006, 8:09 pm PST

Do Something

Quote From: clbenoliel

These shows on Kayleigh have kept me up at night.  As the mother of a 3 year old, I am sickened at what is happening to this child.  CPS and the legal system has failed this child.  Her attorney has failed her.  Dr. Phil, I can't even believe you have the nerve to tell the mother to calm down & act rationally.  If that were your child, you would go to the ends of the earth to protect her & that is exactly what this mother needs to do.  Jeremy would have seen this child again unsupervised over my dead body.  Dr. Phil, you have the resources to help this child where everyone else has failed her.  If you need to get on your plane & fly out there yourself for her court hearings then I would expect no less from you.  Be her champion & help this innocent child.  Christy

YES DR PHIL; BE THE MAN WE ALL HOPE YOU ARE
 
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November 28, 2006, 8:21 pm PST

He is an Adult

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But if he is innocent then he IS a victim.
If He is Innocent? First we must protect Our Children. Don't put him in Jail, just make sure the visitations are Supervised until the investigation has ended. Our Children are innocent and unable to protect themselves. This is why we Must Step up and Make Sure they are Protected.
 
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November 28, 2006, 8:39 pm PST

Thankyou

Quote From: chitowncat1

Dr. Phil really missed the boat on this one.  Physicians who are trained in examining children who are sexually abused know that there is physical evidence only 7% of the time.  Dr. Phil's expert was "perplexed" as to why there was no physical evidence.  THIS IS THE MAJORITY OF THE TIME. The general public does not know this nor do many physicians.  I am an Emergency Medicine physician who was lucky enough to train with a doctor who has specialized training in this area.  I have done these exams and it is very rare to find physical evidence.  The lack of physical evidence means nothing.  Dr. Phil missed a big opportunity to educate the public.
Thankyou so much for educating us. This is a very import point.
 
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November 28, 2006, 9:01 pm PST

"YES STOP DEFENDING HIM"

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Jeremy has been given every opportunity to prove his innocence, and has failed miserably.  #1 priority, Protect the child!!!!

"I Agree #1 Priority is to PROTECT THE CHILD"

 
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November 28, 2006, 9:11 pm PST

YES

Quote From: domton2

This topic really is upsetting, I feel so bad for the mother of this little girl who is just trying to do the best she can in her situation ,and I absolutly believe everything she is saying and know it is true. Dr Phil really upsets me the way he has treated this mother, as if she is just trying to ruin Jeremy by giving out flyers...I say good for you ! People need to know to keep thier children safe. I was raped and molested countless times by respected people of the community and told so many different people, and nothing was ever done to help me. Yet had I been an adult they would have been arrested right away, why is it when a child says something nobody listens? I say if you want to know the truth ask a child. I wish I could do something for this little girl. My whole life was messed up by my abuser and I have had trouble with relationships since then. Please Dr Phil wake up ...this guy is guilty !!!!  This mother has been completely honest about everything. If I found out someone did that to my child they would be wearing a toe tag before daybreak.

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November 28, 2006, 9:19 pm PST

Help HER

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When my daughter was 2, there were signs of sexual abuse and I was convinced my babysitter's husband had molested her.  I took her to her pediatrician where they found a tear (a very traumatic exam for a child), but explained this could not hold up in court because a child could conceivably receive a tear from falling off a tricycle.  A report was made to CPS, who claimed they could do nothing because she was too young to testify.  Needless to say, my daughter never returned to that babysitter.  As she grew, trouble grew with her - smoking, drinking and finally a full out addiction to meth.  I tried everything to pull her back from what seemed the brink of death at 85 lbs and living from motel to motel.  One particularly bleak day after more than a year of trying to save her, I begged her to tell me why she cared so little for her life that she would face death rather than leave the drugs behind.  She admitted, at the age of 19, that her father (who had been a very small part of her life) had molested her starting at age 2 and it continued to age 13.  I never even imagined this, but once she was able to tell me this horrible secret, her life changed and she was able to overcome her drug addiction, her need to escape such a horrible secret, and to blossom into the beautiful young woman she is today.  From my experience, I have 2 observations about the story of Kaylee.  If a child was coached to say such things, I believe she would see it as a game and say those awful words with a smile and not with tears pouring down her face - how absolutely heartbreaking to watch!  Secondly, as a mother and a grandmother, if CPS and the court system failed me, I would escalate it to whatever level need be to have something done.  I would be absolutely terrified of the repercussions to my child if I sat back and dealt with this calmly as Dr. Phil suggests.  I have seen firsthand the damage it can do to a child when she is molested and it lingers for a lifetime, particularly when it is your own father.  The fact that he has failed a lie detector test, had a questionable 2nd test, and his daughter sobs about what Jeremy has done leaves little doubt to his guilt.  At the very least, supervised visitation -PLEASE!!!
Yes Dr Phil, Please Help Her. Yes at the Very Least MAKE SURE SHE GETS SUPERVISED VISITATION. Too Many Lives of Molested Children have lead to Self Hate and then Death.
 
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November 28, 2006, 9:52 pm PST

I Agree

Quote From: operaismoi

  The one point that was never made during this show was that Krista anbd Bonnie would not have escalated this and continued to rabble rouse if Jeremy had agreed to supervised visitations.  He agreed to it on the first show and then went back on that promise.  If I was this child's parent, I would never allow my child to go into Jeremy's home without supervision.  It is crazy to me that at least this requirement has not been mandated by the courts.  Here is a child that is actually verbally complaining about being molested.  I am a teacher and my experience has been that most children do not or can not verbally explain what has happened to them and often molestation or abuse is found through a change in behavior or in their play.  This child is actually telling people she was molested and still action isn't being taken!  Imagine if she was just playing sexually with her dolls, no one would be listening.  I agree that it isn't fair to punish Jeremy until the courts can make a final conclusion.  But the reality is that this is "he said, she said", so until they can get to the bottom of this, there needs to be supervision to keep Kaylee safe.  That is the least that can be expected.  Dr. Phil keeps saying that Krista needs to calm this down...but under the circumstances, I think she should be yelling even louder!  Whatever it takes to keep Kaylee safe.

Jen

Jen, I think you have made a very good point. It started with Jeremy going back on his agreement with supervised visitations. Yes I think the calming down needs to be Jeremy. PROTECT THE CHILD--- Lets First Protect the Child and Keep Kaylee Safe
 

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