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November 28, 2006, 10:35 pm PST

IT IS ALL ABOUT THE CHILD

I think the Point Should be Protecting the Child. Isn't this what Dr Phil Always says. When It comes to Children, He's in there Corner. So Dr Phil Please Help this little Girl. Until there is More Information PLEASE Intervene in this little innocent Childs behalf (If you are able). Because it is about Protecting the Little Children who do not have a Voice. There must be, at the very least, be safety for her in Supervised Visitations. It is what Jeremy Promised to You. Please call him on it. Let someone from your staff supervised. HELP THE INNOCENT CHILDREN -- Before it is too late

 
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November 28, 2006, 10:39 pm PST

GOOD POINT

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EXACTLY!!! AND IF SO, THEN THAT WOULD MEAN THAT SLIMY SICK &%# IS INNOCENT RIGHT?  ANSWER THIS IF THAT'S THE CASE....WHY ISN'T HE TRYING TO FIND OUT WHO IS HURTING HIS PRECIOUS DAUGHTER THEN??  WHY IS HE JUST INSISTING THAT IT'S NOT HAPPENING AT ALL?  AS A PARENT I KNOW THE FIRST THING THAT WOULD CROSS MY MIND IF I WAS ACCUSED OF SOMETHING LIKE THIS BY MY OWN CHILD IS "SOMETHING IS GOING ON, SOMEONE IS HURTING HER...I HAVE TO FIND OUT WHO IT IS"  ONLY HE IS NOT CONCERNED IS HE?  HE JUST CONTINUES TO SAY ITS A LIE....HE CALLS HIS OWN DAUGHTER A LIAR...WHAT A GREAT MAN!!!

"This is a Good Point. A Concerned Parent would want to check out what was going on. The little girl seems to be in Distress --- So Why? A father is suppose to protect and be concerned for his child, so why is there no display of this? And who does it really hurt to agree and go through with supervised visits. The Point is the Childs Safety and Best Interest." 

 
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November 28, 2006, 10:41 pm PST

RIGHT ON

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WELL SAID!!

"Yes Well Said InDeed"

 
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November 29, 2006, 10:39 am PST

PROTECT THE CHILD

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It makes me sick that so many children are being molested and most of it by family members.  I always wonder about women 50 years ago, nobody talked.  I know someone who was having sex with her father from 11 to 15!  Now she is his caregiver,  YUCK! 

 

However, what about the wrongly accused?  What do they do after their name is splashed everywhere and no one, not even family, believes them.  Are we getting too paranoid, could all this result in a modern day Witch Hunt?   Dr. Phil, I want to see a show of someone who was proven innocent and how it ruined their life!  

 

I will say it again, "You are supposed to be innocent until proven guilty",  NOT HERE IN AMERICA!!!

"The Point is to FIRST Protect a Child WHO CANNOT Protect Herself. We aren't saying put him in Jail---Unless he is Found Guilty. At the Very Least he should Honor his Promise to DR PHIL and EVERYONE, that he would have SUPERVISED VISITS, until this is all worked out. NO HARM, NO FOUL. THIS IS AN INNOCENT CHILD WE ARE TALKING ABOUT. Not a Game. Lets Error on the Side of Caution."

 
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November 29, 2006, 10:56 am PST

THINK OF THE CHILD FIRST

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thank you so much.  I don't know if Jeremy is guilty or innocent.  but it is the hatred that will tear Kaylee apart.  My son is still struggling with some things his mom did to him.  And I always tried to put him first.

The supervised visits they had set up for me, for the 11 months of hell, actually protected me from my son's mother.  She couldn't continue to make up things cause I had witnesses.  they were a big blessing in disguise, though I was a bit humiliated at first.  I do wish this situation with Jeremy and Kaylee's mother would take a turn for the better,  for Kaylee's sake.

I hate to see all this craziness happen to anyone.

thanks again for your kind words.  cheers..Tim

"JoJeJoJemom,

Isn't the Most important thing we should consider is THE CHILD. We must first take all the extra precautions to make sure our little children (who can not protect themselves) are Cared for. If there is an inkling that something is amiss, we must investigate and protect the child until it is resolved. Otherwise can we call ourselves loving human beings? It would be a Barbaric Society if we Dd Not Protect Our Young. What is a little discomfort to go out of your way a bit (Supervised Visitations) to be a Civilized Society. It is not about the Mother, the GrandMother or the Father; It is about OUR CHILDREN. Our Innocent, Precious Children.WHAT IS BEST FOR THEM? To Make SURE if something is Amiss we Intervene and Make sure they are safe. IT Takes A Village and A Society

 
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November 29, 2006, 11:10 am PST

Good For YOU

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I just used this message because it was closest to the top....I am not asking to be argumentative, but I have read this more than a few times....so I am curious..
WHY is it that people have been saying that parents would want to keep the abuse in the family?? that doesn't make sense to me.
the only way I'd say keep it in the family was if Jeremy had been found guilty and was in jail, but now Kaylees mother is just crying out for some sort of supprt or recognition that she needs someone to help protect her daughter.
What could her family do if she decided to "keep it in the family"
"I Agree. Keeping the Secrets in a Family Many Times does Not Help the Child. Molestation has been A Dirty Quiet Secret for Many Years--- and it still goes on--- at the expense of Ruining Children and everyone lives connected to the child (even until adulthood). As a molested child myself (as well as my sisters--- who are barely getting by as adults, because of this abuse). I would stand on every rooftop and scream it at the top of my lungs, if I could get the attention to help my child. This Mother has tried Everything to Protect her child. Hurray for her Courage and the Women who have Fled with their children from their childs abusers. They are Thinking of the Little Innocent Souls, at the expense of having a unstable life on the run, for themselves. Mothers (and Fathers) are suppose to Protect the Children---We Are ALL SUPPOSE to Protect the Children. What do we do When the Courts, Dr Phil, Child Protective Services, Neighbors, Physicans, etc let us Down. Lets Find Out IF Something is Going ON--- There is Concern After ALL. We are not suggesting to wreak a mans life, we are suggesting an investigation and supervised visits until the investigation is concluded."
 
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November 29, 2006, 11:21 am PST

YES KUDOS TO YOU I Agree TOO

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I don't know you but man I love you!

There isn't one thing I disagreed with here.  Very well written I need not add anything except that I will be quoting this several more times so it isn't lost in the shuffle of posts.  Dr. Phil needs to see this and respond on the next show. 

Kudos to you and THANK YOU!

"YES I think Dr Phil Should ADDRESS This. Why didn't he ASK Jeremy About Lying. What is the Harm in Supervised Visits until this is Straightened Out. Jeremy not only Lied to Dr Phil. He lied to everyone Listening. The only thing I disagree with is No I Do Not Think Jeremy Should Go to Jail -- UNLESS he is Found Guilty. But the Child Should Be PROTECTED at ALL Costs. SUPERVISED VISITS is Not a Conviction. It is a Protection for the Child (whether needed or not -- it is just a safety measure). Again This is About the Child--- Not Jeremy"
 
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November 29, 2006, 11:31 am PST

A Civilized Society

Isn't the Most important thing we should consider is THE CHILD. We must first take all the extra precautions to make sure our little children (who can not protect themselves) are Cared for. If there is an inkling that something is amiss, we must investigate and protect the child until it is resolved. Otherwise can we call ourselves loving human beings? It would be a Barbaric Society if we Dd Not Protect Our Young. What is a little discomfort to go out of your way a bit (Supervised Visitations) to be a Civilized Society. It is not about the Mother, the GrandMother or the Father; It is about OUR CHILDREN. Our Innocent, Precious Children.WHAT IS BEST FOR THEM? To Make SURE if something is Amiss we Intervene and Make sure they are safe. IT Takes A Village and A Society to Rear Good Citizens

 

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