Quote From: fancy1524Hi. I just read your message. Im a female 45, and I have been married 3 times and I do understand what you are going through. I always tell myself that I must have the word SUCKER written on my forehead. All of my relationships did not work out, and I went looking for one online, trust me that was not a wise decision, cause this marriage is also failing, so I do know what your going through, but I honestly believe that we just have not found our soulmate yet and he and she is out there, and one day we will find them and be truly happy. If you would like to talk more I would be glad to speak to you. I have msn if you ever decide you want a friend to talk to. Do not give up ever, love is there for you, and the thing I say is it is there loss and our gain...
Hey that was a cool message from a cool woman like you!
I asked myself many, many times “is there something wrong with me?” Do I really know how to handle relationship? My previous one was a distance relationship because she was in New York while I’m here in the Middle East. My current one (which is on the verge of breaking-up) is as well a distance relationship because she's in UK.
I should say that it was my fault of not telling her first & foremost that I got a 6 year old kid. My only purpose of not letting her know about it was so crystal clear that “she might reject” me because of me being a father to a 6 year old kid. I was just waiting for the right time (I told her) for me to be able to spill the beans BUT my “trusted friend” based in UK as well told her instead of I telling her.
That’s my dilemma now. I courted her for less than a month and i was able to win her heart two days before my holiday last August.
She admitted during our phone conversation that she was indeed pressured when I asked her that I should be able to know her answer if I win her heart or not before my departure last August 15. She said YES on the 13th.
My intention was clear of winning her heart. Since our last phone conversation, we talked of her holiday next year on May. It seems to me that BETRAYAL is the issue?
We have a lot of things in common and I thought she was the one that I’ve been waiting for. She’s 34 and I don’t know which way our relationship is going.
Do you think we still have a chance?
Thanks for your invitation, it's a good idea. I hope of talking to you soon.
Thank you.
