Quote From: darcylovemaybe what was missing in my husband's life was someone.....but by the time I came along he was already addicted. I think in many ways he was lonely for attention (he had a large family but I can't say his parents weren't the best they could be for 6 kids). He had 3 sisters very close in age to him and being surrounded by so many with needs all the same at the same time I am sure was part of the cause. I often think that have a large number of children isn't always the best thing because something has to give. It is no different then having too many in one classroom.
I am sure this new board will not be popular to some on the other one. Support does not mean to me not hearing the other side but means allowing a person to voice without feeling attacked. That has not taken place at the other place in very long time. People need to know they have someone to listen and not always judge them. And in all of that ...guidance to finding the answer can happen. If showing up here only ends up with someone being faced with more blame and attacks....they turn away and get nothing.
I will check my email. I am in the middle of creating a photo collage for my son's friend for christmas so if I don't get back to you right away....that is why.
Aim new to this website.but since aim been here it been a very big help.i got so much insight about what porn has done to me and to many people like me.it nice to find site where you can go and talk about how your feeling and people will understand. I live on a small island and you cant really talk to anyone there with out the whole island finding out.
Its hard when you are married and your other half is looking at porn, but when he is looking at female body builders now that hurts. You see after i had my children it changed my body.I don't have the same body i had before the kids. I conforted him about it and he tells me that he doesn't really know.so i asked him if thats kind of woman he wants, he told me no. it just dont make any sense to me. he tell me that iam the only woman he wants but he cant stop looking i dont think he cant stop he just dont want to. It really hurt so much that i don't want to have sex with him. Dont get me wrong i like having sex with him. Its just that i can't help feeling that its the other women he is thinking about. I tried of everything i can , I have even been losing the weight and trying to get my body back to the way it was just to make him want me . but the question i have been asking my self is do i want to be with him. Before i go i just wanted to say Thank you
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hawaiiangirl
I just wanted to say Thank you to everyone who gave me some advice.Where aim from you cant really go and talk about since everyone knows everyone here.You see i Live on a small island. It like this if you talked to one person about something everyone else will know about it. I really never know the porn affected other people to.Its nice to have a place where you can go and talk about it and people will understand how its affected you. Today will be a nice day. I hope everyone have a nice day.
