Where do I start any time you are dealing with kids it is hard. I was taken away from my family when I was 5 years old I was adopted into a good family at the age of 8. I am 47 now I found out about 2 years ago that my biological father was not my dad. My mother was having an affair. Every child has a right to know where they come from, they need to know so they can go forward. There is a time and a place for everything. adults need to realize kids do need to know but you need to pick your moment on when and how you tell them they do not have to have all the details. As far as a man paying child support if the child is not his that isn't right either. Women really make me mad sometimes because they are so manipulative. They need to think more about the kids then they do themselves. Think how they would feel.
Thank-you,
Rhonda