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March 6, 2007, 4:08 pm PST

When I heard about Dakota in this movie I felt uncomfortable about it also.

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DR. PHIL, PLEASE - take this a step further on just how far a stage mother like Dakota Fanning's mother "Joy" sacrficed her daughter in the hopes of her little girl Dakota getting an Oscar nomination.  "It's a gritty perfomance that may just earn Dakota an Oscar".  Remember - Dakota as the little darling in "Charlette's Web"?  She is 12 years old now and just completed the movie "Hounddog".  In the movie the character gets raped by a grown man.  Dakota slips on a body suit while she "acts" like she is being raped by this grown man.  Her mother and manager thinks this ok because they are on the set, and she has a body suit on during the rape scene.  Dakota also runs around appearingly naked or clad only in underpants.  Dakota defended the actions of her mother saying they are "friends" and she totally trusts her mother's decisions regarding her career.  Please anyone reading this!!!  The only way to stop this is, is with the almighty dollar.  DO NOT PAY to see this movie!  Boycott the theater, Boycott next years Oscars.  In America we have free speach.  We have the choice to read what we want, write what we want.  We also have the right to choose not to put money into the pockets of people who produce and direct small children in basically soft porn films, and call it acting.  Imagine what frame of mind that little girl had to get into to ACT like she was being raped.  Did the other actor who was acting like he was raping her, grind himself into her body suit?  That poor child.  She will never have her innocence back.  The sad thing is that this desensitizes a person so much, you are just setting them up to be abused later in life.  Hollywood would not use children like this, if we did not pay to go see it.  Think of all the pedofiles and perverts who will now be able to walk into a general public theater, and be able to get their jollies all for 8.00 a look.  Don't support the abuse of this child, and the others like her.
I know it's only acting but she's just 12 years old. I saw her being interviewed about it and she does indicate that she trusts her mother's decisions. That's kinda sad. I think she's a little young for that sort of thing. I guess it's just a sign of our times.I really can't understand her mother's thinking on this decision.
 
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March 6, 2007, 4:38 pm PST

I understand it a little better.

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Kids will do what parents want because they want their parents' love and approval.  They want their parents to be happy, don't want to disappoint them.  If a parent let's the kid know how much they want their child to do well at something, most kids will try very hard to succeed at it, even if they don't really want to do it.  Of course, behavior frequently changes once they hit the teen years, but even then kids want their parents' approval.   

 

 

Your post got me to thinking back when my son was in T-ball, coach pitch and baseball. There was a man who was always very hard on his little boy.Always critisizing ,coaching from the sidelines, actually he was our coach at one time. He was a likable fellow except when it came to the way he was always dogging his boy. And you know when that kid got up to bat he was always glancing at his father. They were just little kids and I guess maybe he was trying very hard to please his father. If that's what it means for these actor kids to try and please their parents, if there are situations like that , then I think it's very sad. I'm sure it's not always that way. But,way back then that kid was always dogged by his dad. Our boys were the same age and both involved in recreation sports so we were around them a lot. I don't think the guy really thought that there was anything wrong with what he was doing, because one day at a game he was talking to me and my husband and out of the blue he said "My wife thinks I'm too hard on (his son)" Well neither one of us said anything.There was a bit of a pregnant pause. When he walked away I said to my husband"I wanted to say, now that you mention it you are too hard on him." My husband just smiled and said "No I think we'd be better off just letting it go" Anyway the kid is grown now and didn't turn out to be a star in any sports,but he did turn out alright.
 
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March 7, 2007, 7:34 am PST

Here I go again.

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It has been said that there is a "profile" for people who hoard cats inside their homes. Usually a woman,over 60 living alone. I don't think Kristy exactly fits this profile. I have seen a woman from a town near ours on t.v. twice. She fits this profile and the cats are in her house and it's a real stinky mess. It seems like for her it's a compulsion that she has trouble controlling. On both occasions she defended herself saying that her cats were well cared for. Not true, in fact some of them had to be euthanized. They had cameras inside her house and it was a mess. I don't know if she got any help for herself, but she got fined and was told to not do it anymore. It's probably going on all over the country. I love cats and have 4 of them.I hope I never get to the point that I'm outta control. All of mine are fixed. In our area we can contact St.Assiss's and if we qualify we can send our animals to a nearby town and have them fixed and get their rabies shots cheaper than going to the vet. Sometimes they also have a traveling hospital van where people can get help with getting their pets spayed and neutered .I know that I am at my limit as to what we can afford. 5 dogs 4 cats If I were to get anymore I'd be in over my head.
Just last night(3/06/07) there was yet another report on about cats. A couple in a town near us had 18 cats in cages in their home.( feces covered) There was a woman representing an org. who had been trying to help this couple since LAST SUMMER. Offering to help spay and neuter etc... They continued to reject the offers of help until the cats had to be removed. Is this everywhere?
 
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March 7, 2007, 7:45 am PST

I don't think DrPhil meant that either.

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i honestly don't think Dr Phil meant no disrespect to LUPUS in any way, i also don't think the show was directed to whether or not it could be fatal, but i do think that this show was more about getting the message out that if you see someone having problems of any kind, dont wait for a picture of death one can sell for millions, GET THAT PERSON TO A DAMN HOSPITAL EVEN IF IT MEANS TO CARRY THEM OVER YOUR SHOULDER TO GET THEM THERE!!! seems a picture of a happy and healthy face would be worth more than all the money in the world, dont you?
But from reading all the posters who are afflicted with this problem, it sounds like he dismissed it as being sort of trivial. It's possible that he trusts other people who do research for him. I think they let him down this time. We don't even know for sure if AN really had Lupus or if it was a factor in her death. After reading all of the postings from people who actually HAVE Lupus I hope DrPhil will do a show on the disease itself.
 
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March 8, 2007, 5:48 am PST

On the topic of consummation.

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He was incapable of consummating the marriage absolutely.

I think if the marriage had been consummated, we would have seen the tape on ET by now.
 
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chillin'
March 8, 2007, 6:08 am PST

Please help on this.

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  Hi there,

 

 It is an auto immune disease which basically means that our bodies attack us.  We can have subtle issues like a skin rash, all the way to death from Lupus attacking a vital organ.  Many of us are plagues with fatigue and often we have a 'butterfly' rash across our face. We (i) have gone from being a beautiful, outgoing person to an overweight, tired person. this disease, no matter how you are affected changes your entire life.

 

We sufferers want to fight this so bad, yet we are prisoners in our bodies. We are simply to tired.  The entire thought of  the mention of LUPUS on national television , was great. I was hoping it might get the ball rolling on some attention that it needs desperately.  The Lupus Foundation AZ  planned a walk last year to help with research and the planning committee ALL has Lupus, guess what happened? It was never done....why? We were all to tired!

 

  I hope this helped a little. I was on chemo for years and I have a port in my chest, just like some cancer patients do. it is the same severity, except, sometimes cancer strikes in a certain place and it can be removed, Us with Lupus never get to have that done, our symptoms can change as quickly as momentarily!

   Please visit www. lupus.org or search Lupus anywhere on the web.

I am thinking(and I may very well be wrong) that at some time in the past diseases like Lupus and Fibromyalgia were not recognized by the medical community. With that in mind I think maybe that a lot of women were not taken seriously or misdiagnosed and told they had "nerve(head) problems." Imagine how frustrating that would be. In my case,I don't have either of those diseases. But I did start having an eye problem about 10 years ago. It started out with the vision being blocked in one of my eyes. When I went to my regular eye doctor he told me that some eye doctors would dismiss this (especially in women)as having a problem with their nerves.(Anxiety,etc...) He said he did not believe in doing that. So he sent me to an eye specialist. What it ended up being is that sometimes in one or the other of my eyes the fluid behind the eye does not move continually and blocks my vision. It's kind of like macular degeneration except up to this point I have never had any blood vessels behind my eyes. So we are just keeping an eye on things until something happens that can be corrected by surgery. I'm glad they didn't chalk it up to "nerves".
 
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chillin'
March 8, 2007, 8:39 am PST

Why is it called "Brazilian"?

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I actually meant that since she'd had a Brazilian wax, that they couldn't test her hair from down there, either.
I was just trying to offer an excuse as to why she wasn't wearing underwear.Maybe to show off her Brazilian wax? IMO some things look better with a little camoflauge.
 

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