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January 10, 2007, 5:34 pm PST

Don't have any special friend

I don't have a friend to hang out with or call.  I have made friends in the past but, I always back aways just as they get to know me I think because I am afraid they won't like me and then I will loose them anyway.  I have been depressed and desperate for relief for about 32 years. Does anyone want to talk?
 
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January 11, 2007, 6:57 am PST

I don't feel lucky

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Boy are you lucky!

 

xox

We are here for you ok....

So tell me about yourself...

Favorite TV shows?

Favorite books?
Do you love chocalate like me?

Xox

S

Hi S

Thank you but I don't feel very lucky. I feel very alone.

J

 
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January 12, 2007, 4:37 am PST

Thanks

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Hi, I understand how you feel. I do the same thing too. Even with guys. Alot try to get to know me or make friends but I always shy away. I grew up and spend my marriage being teased and made fun of because of my lack of female endowment, yeah even my exhusband did. So now anytime any guy tries to get to know me, because eventually it might lead to something else, something I am to embarassed to show, all of this has also made me stay away from all people. So I have no friends, either. I had one that I emailed for 7 years I will tell that later in another posting.

 

 

I also have an exhusband (one of 3) that actually bought some oil through a magazine to enlarge them. I don't have much time this morning, but I would really like to talk more.

thanks again

J

 
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January 14, 2007, 12:45 pm PST

I totally understand

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i can't seem to shake the depression thgat i'v3e got and i have no one to talk to qabout it. my husband doesn't want to sit down and listen to my problems and my so called friendsa re all to busy for me so i don't know what else to do i need new friends.  i just don't know what else to do or where to go. i really need some help.
My husband listens to me, but really doesn't understand depression. I would like to help as I am struggleing with depression and ADHA. I am 47 female.
 
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January 17, 2007, 1:31 pm PST

Can;t seem to find replies to my message

I have just spent 30 minutes and can't find my message or figure out how to see replies to my message of a few days ago has anyone had this problem?
 
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January 21, 2007, 12:01 pm PST

Thank You

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Hi, hope you see this reply.  I hate to see you so frustrated so thought I would try to help.

 

When you come to the site log in,  go to the depression board.  Then there is something that says subscribe to this topic, click that and it will be kind of like home base next time you log in.  So then when you log in go to the top of the page and in the grey part it says members and under that it will say message boards, Click on message boards and it will show you the depression board and how many posts there have been since you were there last..  You can click on the number and see only the new posts.  also when you are subscribed to topic it will show you your own last 3 posts and you can click on one and it will take you to that post so you don't have to look thru so many.  At the bottom of each post there is 'replies to this message' click on that and it will show you if anyone replied to you.  Your messages are there and you have received replies.  Hope you are not having technical difficulties and this will help.  I know it is alot to remember at first and we all had to learn too so just ask.  Hope it helps you and anybody else having trouble.  I just hate to see anybody stuggling and frustrated.  That is how I feel most days and I sure don't want to see you in that same place.

I can't thank you enough for taking the time to reply to my question.  I am just now learning and what you replied will help me so much.  I hope you are having a good day.  If you need a smile I have a spare one : -)

Jmc

 
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January 21, 2007, 12:10 pm PST

Hi Nicole

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I knew a little girl who had adhd  and her mom had alot of trouble with her but i haven't seen them in a while. my depression changes alot. some parts of the day i;m happy and some parts i'm sad. sometimes i get sad for no reason it changes on me. i have never been treared for it though. i was in counseling but i didn't tell my counselor about my depression because of some other issues. i was in it last year too, but i only went one day and i didn't go back but i'm thinking abiout going back soon. write me back okay?

                                                                              Nicole

I know exactly what it feels like.  Years ago I was sad one minute and happy the next not knowing which I was going to feel and when.  I have been sad 90% of the last ten years now.  I just recently went to a different doctor and he changed my medicine for depression to Efflexor XR and also put me on Concerta for ADHD.  I never imagined I had that disorter.  I have often heard of it in children, but I am 47.  I hesitate to say I am doing better because I don't want to jinks it.  I have went to the same doctor for the past ten years and he never tried me on any other medicine except zoloft and I took 400mg daily for the past 8 years. Anyhow hang in there and DON'T HESITATE to seek medical help as it is not your fault you feel the way you do.  Please don't let you life go by struggling with being sad more than happy.              Thinking and praying for you  JMC
 
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February 22, 2007, 11:41 am PST

Thank You

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Hi, hope you see this reply.  I hate to see you so frustrated so thought I would try to help.

 

When you come to the site log in,  go to the depression board.  Then there is something that says subscribe to this topic, click that and it will be kind of like home base next time you log in.  So then when you log in go to the top of the page and in the grey part it says members and under that it will say message boards, Click on message boards and it will show you the depression board and how many posts there have been since you were there last..  You can click on the number and see only the new posts.  also when you are subscribed to topic it will show you your own last 3 posts and you can click on one and it will take you to that post so you don't have to look thru so many.  At the bottom of each post there is 'replies to this message' click on that and it will show you if anyone replied to you.  Your messages are there and you have received replies.  Hope you are not having technical difficulties and this will help.  I know it is alot to remember at first and we all had to learn too so just ask.  Hope it helps you and anybody else having trouble.  I just hate to see anybody stuggling and frustrated.  That is how I feel most days and I sure don't want to see you in that same place.

Thank you for helping me out.  I think I have the hang of it now.

maikala

 
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February 22, 2007, 11:44 am PST

Made me smile

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Just keep those pictures coming!  They continue to brighten my day.  I see that SEA said that the cat near the baby reminded her of my cat Chloe.  It's funny, it actually reminds me of both of my cats.  It has Sami's coloring and Chloe's chubbiness!  lol  Plus, Chloe does tend to like that pose!  lol  I can't believe that size similarity with the baby too!

 

Have a nice day/night

:) Suzanne

Hi Suzanne thank you for posting the animal pictures I love animals and it made me feel good while I looked at it. Thanks again. Maikala
 
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February 22, 2007, 12:01 pm PST

Being controlled by husband

I don't know where to begin. I would like to find someone in a situation simular to mine to be kind of a pen pal. Short of getting into my car and just driving and driving or giving up on being happy with my husband I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.  I am not physically abused however I am controlled in a manner if something makes him happy I'm supposed to be happy.  He demand that I say I love you everytime he says it we have been having problems for a while now many many times I would try to explain how his actions make me feel but he never took me serious to him it was always my immagination not how I feel.  He now say I love you over and over and over and over I didn't feel that loving feeling so I wouldn't say it back so I decided I would basically clench my teeth and say it . HE IS SMOTHING ME.  I can't even play with my dog and he takes over. I am suppost to think for him and meet his needs and feelings.  I can't stand it I shake everytime I comes home.  PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME I HAVE HIT BOTTOM AND NOW AM THINKING ABOUT BENEITH BOTTOM. I have emailed Dr. Phil a few times to ask for help however I live in a small town in Vermont and he has many many people asking for help! Maikala
 

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