Messages By: justnancy

Kidnapping is fundamentally dishonest ~ that one tends to hold true across the various cultures ~ I don't know if you've noticed that.  I don't care how she did it.

And, if you didn't find her behavior disturbing ~ disturbing as in would not trust with kids until an exhaustive psychological evaluation is made kind of disturbing, well, there's not really anyplace we can go together with that.

You're obviously very worked up about this right now.  Just because I'm not doesn't mean I have no heart.  I just don't want to see the kids go to what might be an unsafe place ~ and yes, I'm more concerned about them than I am about her.

I didn't realize that we could print in bold and in red here ~ I'll have to remember that.

It's interesting I remember the husband commenting that he was upset that they were staying in separate hotels ~ I think there's a reason for this.  Dr. Phil made provisions so that when she tells him she wants out, he'll be able to ensure that she gets out safely.  She will feel freer to reveal her true feelings to Dr. Phil if she knows she doesn't have to go back to the same hotel room with Mr. Creepy.  It's just awful the psychological torture she has had to endure all these years!

I know that the show will be able to provide her with all of the best resources possible ~ she will be able to find a new life with her kids ~ free from this guy.  I don't think he's going to be able to stop stalking her, in which case, I think he will wind up in jail.  He is so sleazy and manipulative! And yet, he had the nerve to call HER a whore ~ that is just so WRONG! She seems like the sweetest person ever!

Does he deserve to be cheated on... well, he was abusive, so she certainly had the right to leave, she had the right to move on emotionally.

However, he wouldn't let her leave.  He locked her into the marriage just the way he locked her into the basement.

And, considering she was 19 and pregnant when she got pressured into getting married, she sort of got stuck into a marriage she didn't want to be in to begin with.  He didn't quite do the Borat thing with the rug bag over her head, but it came pretty close.

She had the right to move on emotionally.  So, I would say, yes, he deserved what he got.

He deserved to be cheated on.  Yup.

There was something really poignant about looking at the wedding picture of these two ~ in so many ways they seem really well suited for each other.  They are both bright and charming and engaging.  They seem to have common goals and dreams.  And, each one of them wants to be loved and wants to be happy.  I think they could have a lot of fun together if it weren't for the fact that they both seem to hate each other right now.

Aside from that one tiny issue...

I know he is way possessive and can't seem to stand if another guy so much as looks at his wife.  So, why on earth was he trying to get his wife to sleep with his friends? What would be the logic (or illogic) behind that?

I hope not! Dr. Phil seemed pretty serious about keeping her safe.  If he's got to loan her body guards to guard her house for the next few weeks, I think he'll do it.

I hope a lot of people are keeping Jennifer in their prayers.  I know I am!