Messages By: pinkstar3

I can not stand Enza! She is so manipulating and deceiving. She always acts so sarcastic. Granted the mother and daughter need some serious help...thank god for Dr. Phil. However, Enza also needs some major work. Where is her uncle in regards to all of this? They said that Enza is the young girls aunt and her mothers sister in law. Does anyone know? Apparently I didn't catch that if it was mentioned.

Penny definitely needs some serious help! How can you talk about your child like she did. The nerve! She is a drunk and she is an unfit mother. I think that Jason moving out will actually be good for him.

I couldn't believe what I was hearing when Kim told her story. How can you devote more attention, love and care for one child. She is going to end up causing more problems down the road for her youngest child and she has already given uncertainty to her oldest. This woman needs help!

Oh my goodness, Katrina needs some serious help!!! She is over obsessed, jealous and doesn't have a clue that what she is doing is actually hurting her emotionally. On the show it didn't even look like she cared about changing and what anyone was telling her. Jay-Z does need to prosecute her so that she learns her lesson.

For Michelle- You really need to stop having sex with Melvin and stop telling him you love him if you TRULY want him out of your life. That is the only way he is going to know that you are serious. Obviously he isn't getting the point because he doesn't know what you are really wanting. My heart brakes for you. To see all those bruises, marks and emotional pain you have. I wish you the best of luck. Take care.

This story just absolutely broke my heart . To have these two young girls, Dory and Sarah go through all they have gone through at their age is awful. I mean Dory was already cutting herself,  not wanting to go to school, broken noses. I mean oh my goodness! I wish you both the very best and I sincerely hope that the help you receive starts you on a new path. Take care.

Natasha-This is not okay and I'm sure you know that.  I'm sure you are a smart and bright young lady. You just need some guidance and direction in your life. Don't instow the pain you have gone through on other people to experience. It's not healthy for you or them. I also wish you the very best and I sincerely hope that the help you receive starts you on a new path. Take care.

As far as the parents in this mess, you all need to start being more involved in your children's lives. You need to start listening more and take control. This should not have got as far as it did.

Erica-

You are such a courageous, strong, intelligent and beautiful woman. God bless you!! It takes a lot for someone to forgive another person for such a selfish, coward, hurtful and hateful act. I admire you for your willingness to forgive and move forward. I hope that everything in your life from here on out gives you answers, helps you heal and ultimately brings you happiness as you so deeply deserve. You have such a wonderful support system-your sister Rachel. She is your backbone and she really truly loves you so much. God bless you Rachel for being such a supportive, open, strong and beautiful woman.

Congratulations Josh!! What an incredible change. I am so proud of you. You seem so much happier and full of life now. That is absolutely wonderful. God bless your father and step-mother for taking you in and giving you the love, support and guidance to help you lead and live a healthier and happier life that you so needed.

As far as the other parents in which are enabling this unhealthy and unsatisfying life for their children, you really need to step up, take control, be a parent and help your children live a long, healthy, happy and active life. These children are suffering and they are so young. That really saddens me. They are trusting you and depending on you to take care of them, nurture them and look out for their best interest in life.

Bettie-I wish you the best in a healthy life moving forward. You have every right to feel angry, hurt, scared, alone and empty. Who wouldn't? And if you choose not to forgive him than know that that is okay. You seem like a strong woman. I know that you love him and you all have a family but that can't heal the pain you have encountered. Sometimes you just have to move on. I don't believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater" so if you do decide to give him a second chance, be careful. You don't deserve to get hurt again. And it's okay not to trust him fully. You shouldn't.

Molly-I can't believe the kind of person you are so proud to be. You are such an inconsiderate, selfish, hateful and lying you know what. You have done a terrible and awful thing to your sister that will forever change her life and you very clearly have no remorse at all. 

John-Your a jerk!

Sarah-WOW, you looked absolutely amazing!! What a difference. I am so proud of your outstanding success and commitment to this process. You looked so happy and full of life. I wish you the very best on your journey ahead.Congratulations!! Take care.

Tecoa-When I heard that you had relapsed I felt this overwhelming sadness inside of me. I was so desperately hoping that you wouldn't have. I hope that you get focused on this process and your life so that you can lead a happy and healthy future for yourself. One day at a time. I know you can do it! You are a strong and intelligent woman. I wish you the very best and I look forward to hearing about your remarkable success. Take care.

Joani-I could not believe what I was hearing when you said that you went to one of Sarah's old drug dealers to get heroin. That is absolutely absurd!! You know better than that. You have gone through the pain, hurt and self destruction before. You really need to get help for as look as it takes to get your mind clear and focused again on your life. I wish you the very best. Take care.