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Hello, I just wanted to say that a marriage is a 50/50 partnership wether both spouses work or not. My husband and I have been married 17 years at times when I am not employed I still have acess to the bank account we never make major purchases without discussing it first but if i ever need something he has never denied me nor have i denied him. I think that as long as their smart enough to pay bills first that they should be able to spend a bit on themselves, but like myself I always stop to think is it something I really need or am i going to use it. A lot of people now a days were deprived as kids so now they think that because there working with an income that this is the time they can make up for being deprived but what they are really doing is spending unecessary and depriving their own families now to satisfy themselves. People should stop and think about how their spending is effecting their family as a whole, when your to greedy and make your family feel unappreciated you will end up losing them.