I was married for 25 years to a true love. Unfortunately, over that time we both changed so much and didn't "grow together" that we are now divorced. I have remarried, to my soul mate, but even this marriage is not perfect. The thing I've learned is that marriage is hard. If you have a good one, or at least one that is working and functional, hang in there. There are no guarantees that there is something better out there. (This is assuming your relationship is not an abusive one or emotionally unhealthy in some way.) Reminds me of the song.........."If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!" *hehehehe* Don't mean to be flip, just trying to keep things on a lighter note. Take care!