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August 7, 2007, 9:02 pm PDT

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 Why does this rest on the male?

We are the ones to be responsible don'tcha know.
HA! LOL...man, there was this ignorant idea (this reminded me) that floated around in my high school that it was some how the guy's job to have a condom and that he is the one who should know how to put it on.  SIGH
 
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August 7, 2007, 9:15 pm PDT

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Because, initally it is hard to determine what these guys are like.

Some are not upfront about it.

If you are inexperienced......you tend to see what you want to see.

I think, even if they lie about it....the signs will show eventually.....its your choice to be with them, and you just have to keep your eyes open to the signs.




Yes, exactly! That is what dating is for.
 
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August 7, 2007, 9:23 pm PDT

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this is a weight loss board after all!  LOL

Seriously, we are a close knit group so we have been quite about weight loss and the like whiel worrying about Ladean.  But Ladean herself would tell you congrats for the weight loss if she was here right now!  She is a great motivator and cheerleader as you will no doubt find out as you get to know her! 


14 lbs is fabulous!! And efforts obviously were good cause it shows in the numbers!  If I had my smileys (computer problems right now) I'd post smileys jumping up and down and congrats and such but you will have to use your imigination!

Good night everyone!

Trish
Thank you Trish. I am really excited. Getting my exercise in order is my biggest problem for now. I watch my niece (3 months) and nephew (2 years) for 9 hours a day and I have a 3 year old daughter. So needless to say, finding time to exercise has become difficult. It used to be easier cause my daughter doesn't mind her stroller, I have a nice jogging stroller. But I can't do that with two other little ones.

I may have to start getting up at 5 am in order to get this done right! LOL. But that's ok, it's pretty in the mornings here. I live in a lovely little city.

I feel good too, but not as good as I did last time I lost a lot of weight. I think that is because I don't have the exercise going. My husband has lost about 15 lbs or so too. His biggest success though is that his sleep apnea is gone and so is his snoring. So now we can sleep in the same bed again...it's been nearly 2 years! His snoring was so loud I could hear it on the other end of our apartment.

Anyway. He is stuck at work late tonight and I have a hard time sleeping when everyone isn't home.

I'll peak back on tomorrow. Thank you for the reply.
 
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August 7, 2007, 9:53 pm PDT

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Quote From: allinall

 And so it goes fopr the male also.

In fact my son just dodged the bullet. He was able to see through the sweet loving manipulation. They were engaged and when the plans were being discussed he was able to descern they were going to be her plans rather than their plans.
Good for him...I am so sorry your son had a broken engagement. Both of my brothers had that happen to them too. It's all for the better, but that doesn't make it any less sad. My youngest brother go engaged 5 years ago and several weeks after he proposed he found love letters to a guy in Iraq. My other brother went on a religious mission and was engaged to a girl who agreed to wait for him but she got married 4 months later. Heart breaking stuff. :o(
 
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August 7, 2007, 9:58 pm PDT

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Good for him...I am so sorry your son had a broken engagement. Both of my brothers had that happen to them too. It's all for the better, but that doesn't make it any less sad. My youngest brother go engaged 5 years ago and several weeks after he proposed he found love letters to a guy in Iraq. My other brother went on a religious mission and was engaged to a girl who agreed to wait for him but she got married 4 months later. Heart breaking stuff. :o(
But on a brighter note they both got married to much better matches for them this summer. Both seem very happy.
 
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August 8, 2007, 9:21 am PDT

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Emma won't watch porn in my home until she is 18.

 

 

If she's still living at home with you at that age, you're going to allow her to view porn?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

omg.......no wonder this world is so messed up....

 

 

Once Emma is 18 she is an adult, it's legal for her to do it and she can have that privacy. 

Love it, how you ignore every post of mine, won't answer questions, won't respond to ANYTHING but one or two small remarks you can get either mean or hysterical about.
 
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August 8, 2007, 9:28 am PDT

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Emma won't watch porn in my home until she is 18.

 

 

If she's still living at home with you at that age, you're going to allow her to view porn?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

omg.......no wonder this world is so messed up....

 

 

You can put up all the shocked faces you want, but bottom line is this...I don't think porn is the most horrible thing in the world.  It's something you and I disagree on. So I don't know why you are so shocked or why you are hinting that I am contributing to a "messed up" world. We see things differently.

How can I explain this better...you see porn as all bad. I see porn as a THING that can be used for bad, can be used for good, and is often just a neutral thing that does neither good or bad. So, what you see as SHOCKING,  I see as not shocking.
 

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