Messages By: hottubchic

 This guy was PROUD of what he did and he showed nothing but! He should be in Jail..

it makes me sick. I had just had a hysterectomy july 31 and 2 weeks after that I was home "cleaning" out the computer and found in the cookies  "swinger life styles" and  come to find out my husband of 17 years  had an account for 3 years  with  these people. He never met anyone, but spoke with  other couples about me. long story short we ended up in counseling  for a couple months, and he regrets ever joining that web site, and apologized so much.
according to him he was in search of "friends" he worked long hours and really never went out. I was a stay at home mom.
although he never pursued anything and according to him, never would..it makes me sick. its wrong.
why do you people bother getting married if you have the need to swing. why cant you just stay single and live your life without hurting your spouse!

you know if you feel the need to have to swing, why bother getting married in  the first place..
I really would love to know the anwser to that.. is it wanting the best of both worlds? what has happened to the sacrament of marriage? isnt it a union of 2 not 3 4 5 ?
the world is so sick...its just not right.. but its not for us to judge, its Gods job..we all have our opinion on this so we have to agree to disagree where this is concerned. if you need a "sex toy" dont use another human being...