Messages By: lilpandalee

I believe that there is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial dating. I come from a mixed background. The only concern i have with mixed dating her marriage is the fact that you must know your significant other very well and you must know their cultures and be willing to make that apart of your culture and your way of life. Because down the road those very things may conflict with eachother and cause many problems and awkard situations.But if you truly love eachother and are wiling to make it work then there is nothing wrong with two people loving eachother from different races. I have a boyfriend who is full cape verdian - born and raised there but came to america when he was five years old. I on the other hand am half colombian and half portuguese, italian and american. I was raised here and half my family was raised in colombia, south america. I met my boyfriend at a capeverdian church and i personally love their culture and everything about them. My boyfriend understands my culture both spanish and american and loves me for who I am. I do not see the need tohate interracial marriages but i do see why people are cautious when considering to be in one.

WHAT HAS THIS WORLD COME TO? STRIPPING IS A J O B??? the last time i checked a job was a 9-5 work that you do to help and benefit others. not to lur them into lust and to stir up thier lingering temptations. There is ABSOLUTELY NO NEED TO BE A STRIPPER TO MAKE A FEW BUCKS. THAT JUST GOES TO SHOW THAT YOU ARE LAZY AND YO UWANT TO MAKE MONEY AN EASY WAY. SO YOU'RE JUST GOIN TO TELL ME THAT SELLING DRUGS IS OK BECAUSE ITS SIMPLY A JOB WHERE YOU GET MONEY FOR GIVING PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT WHICH IS THE VERY THING THEY DO NOT NEED! it is the same thing. women complain that they are used and that men look at them and use them as objects wel do you think that strippin and callin it a job has anything to do wit it???? i mean come one. my grandmother came to this country and worked in a factory for 20 years. They look down on immigrants but its ok TO BE A STRIPPER. GET A REAL JOB!

WHEN YOU MARRY A MAN YOU BOTH BECOME ONE. OFCOURSE A MAN HAS CONTROL OVER A WOMAN TO  A CERTAIN EXTENT. IF HE DOES NOT WANT HSI WOMAN TO BE EXPOSED TO OTHER GRIMY MEN WHO WANT TO GET SOME THEN THAT MAN HAS A HELL OF A RIGHT TO TELL HIS WOMAN WHAT SHE CAN AND CANNOT DO. AND I AM A WOMAN BUT WOULD YOU LET YOUR HUSBAND BE A CHIP AND DALE>?