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February 12, 2007, 4:23 pm PST

02/13 Secret Love

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Why are so many couples having to deal with infidelity?  It is a total selfish and self-centered action.  Are we so concerned about 'the moment' that we can't see the affect it has in the long run?  A sister should never harm a sibling in this way.  And for it to continue for so long.  My heart goes out to the wife.  It is hard enough dealing with infidelity when it is with someone you don't know; but to have to face your sister and KNOW what she has done with your husband.  I don't believe I could continue in the marriage..He'd have to be very forgiving, loving, supportive and earn my trust; which would take a long time.  I just hope she can learn to be strong, no matter what choice she makes.  It is all so very sad and all too common in this world.  When will we start to respect and treat each other as we wish to be treated?   mmarie
well i had that happen to me before to my man did it to me he had sex with my sister after 12 yrs we were not married or anything but we do have a son togther he was having sex with her for the last 6 yrs and i did not know it until my sister came to me in the delvery room and told me so i know how she feels but i took my son and i left cause he lied to me and i could do better by my self and i think if  that is still going to happen she is better to leave and be by her self than getting hurt and cryin all the time and the kids should never see mommy cryin all the time cause they are going to think it is there fault way mommy is cryin and you never want kids to feel like that
 
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April 28, 2007, 7:26 pm PDT

help them dr phil i know you will

i hope that they get the help they need with dt phil life is to short to fight all the time have a great life with your family when you have then cause when they are gone you will miss then like crazy
 
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April 28, 2007, 7:28 pm PDT

02/13 Secret Love

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well i had that happen to me before to my man did it to me he had sex with my sister after 12 yrs we were not married or anything but we do have a son togther he was having sex with her for the last 6 yrs and i did not know it until my sister came to me in the delvery room and told me so i know how she feels but i took my son and i left cause he lied to me and i could do better by my self and i think if  that is still going to happen she is better to leave and be by her self than getting hurt and cryin all the time and the kids should never see mommy cryin all the time cause they are going to think it is there fault way mommy is cryin and you never want kids to feel like that
you know i am not sure why ppl have to do this to other ppl it is really sad tho
 
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April 28, 2007, 7:31 pm PDT

02/13 Secret Love

Quote From: junebug67

I haven't had a chance to view the show yet but have been reading all the comments posted.  I am a member of this family.  I guess you could say I am estranged, as Bettie is the only family member I have any contact with.  There is SOOO much to this family and most of it you couldn't believe.  This affair is only a tip to an iceburg when it comes to the relationship between Bettie, Molly, our mother and myself. 

 

 

i know how you feel i really do i moved away from my family and know i have none here i am alone sometime with my son thank you for getting back to me i wish i had a man to love me and love my son i want to be cared about but it is hard when you have never been with another man before
 

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