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February 13, 2007, 10:50 am PST

EASIEST way to find out!!

I suspected something was going on and when I confronted my husband, I was told that I was "crazy".   I bought a voice-activated tape recorder and placed it in his van (they're really small, and only record when there's sound).   I needed to confirm that I was "crazy" and over-reacting.   On the FIRST day, I got my husband on audio tape very "close" to the act (tape stops after two hours of recording) It was enough for me.   Anyway, stick one of these either in his car or in an area where there are outgoing phonecalls, and you may find something...just like I did.

 

 
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November 17, 2007, 12:46 pm PST

Possibly in the same situation

I've caught my husband with prostitutes.  He says he's not doing this anymore, but something is telling me differently.   He can't "perform" for "medical" reasons, yet I find porn hidden all over the place.  I don't know how to catch him and I probably just don't have the energy because I don't want to know.   He swears he's doing nothing and that there's nothing wrong with me, yet he rarely comes near me.  Believe me...I take good care of myself and have had numerous offers to stray....it's just not something I can do.  I think he has the same type of addiction....what are the signs???  I don't think he's having an affair, just running around for quick satisfaction.....(still NO excuse).
 

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