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frustrated
May 1, 2007, 8:27 am PDT

get real get a life

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I find it rather frustrating hearing people who think that you can just set your mind to lose weight and it happens.  I've done that time and again, only to fail and be so frustrated, words can't describe.  You obviously haven't known being disgusted with yourself for failing at the one thing you'd love NOTHING MORE than to do, but it keeps eluding you.  I'd get lap band surgery in a minute, but my insurance won't cover it or any complications evolving from it, and I can't afford it out of pocket.  So please, give me this pearl of wisdom you obviously possess, and tell me how to do "something to change the situation", "do something about your weight", or what diet program I can follow that can accomplish what healthy eating hasn't?  I've gone to dieticians, weight watchers, health spas, and nothing has worked.  Remember, there but for the grace of God go I, and you shouldn't simplify anyone else's condition if you haven't walked a day in their shoes.  I hope this woman gets the help she so obviously needs, and gets her life on track again.
These people need to get off their chairs and get motivated! I'm sick of people crying about how fat they are. Changing you lifestyle isn't easy it takes hard work. Their is no cure for what they are going through stop eating the grease, fat etc. Family members also need to stop making meals for these people. they are enablers.
 
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frustrated
May 1, 2007, 8:32 am PDT

excuses

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IF your that overweight why in the world can you not do something about your weight? Dr's can refer you for surgery. There are diet programs which I just did myself to help you eat healthy. I find this like alcholism........just find help and make the choice to quit putting it in your mouth. When it comes down to it, your all by yourself. You should not have to depend on anyone to take care of you. For crying out loud........do something to change the situation that you are in. Opinions?
I agree with you all this crying and no action.  Like dr. phil is going to wave a magic wand for these people. sick of hearing about how family members complain yet they continue to make meals or order fast food for these unmotivated people.
 
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May 2, 2007, 9:15 am PDT

just a thought

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I agree that more health insurance companies need to pay for surgeries like gastric bypass, if a person is morbidly obese.  I also think that we have to start spending more money on our childrens school lunches to provide better/healthier options for them.  I know that my 2nd grader is allowed to skip lunch and pick up snacks  like chips.  This is ridiculous and needs to stop.  Get rid of pizza day at the schools  and start having grilled chicken wrap day!  I think that our government has an obligation at this point to do something since our kids and our society (the United States) are the fattest out there!
Alot of these obese people need family members to cook meals for them. Why not cook healthy meals for them. Did anyone ever see I eat 33,000 calories a day on tlc? Anyway I always see family members ordering fast food or cooking very fatty foods. If they want to help add some healthy things besides all the fat. It could only help right?
 
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naughty
May 2, 2007, 9:19 am PDT

hey

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My wife did an amazing thing. About 2 years ago she lost over 2 hundred pounds in 18 months by changing things in her life. Now she has a whole new set of friends and I feel left out of her plans, parties, events. People think she's amazing and desire to hang out with her. I feel like I'm an embarrasment to her because I'm not included. So, one must be well adjusted to the new woman she has become after losing the weight.
Sorry about you wife. I guess she's just adjusting to her new life of feeling free. Give her time it's like she just started living. If you want to look me up I'd like to meet you. Who knows?
 
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surprised
May 2, 2007, 3:43 pm PDT

I'm so sure

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I hate it when people ASSUME that it is soooo easy to lose weight!! I am a single mom of 3 children whom I love more than life. The only problem is when you are on assistance as I am, the cost of the healthy food is way beyond my means. I would love nothing more than to be able to buy the fruits and vegetables that would be better for my kids and me,but with my very limited income this is impossible. Almost 13 years ago I went for stomach stapling and this worked for awhile;but, as with everything else,it only works as good as what goes in your stomach. I have gained back 80 of the 100lbs I lost because I can only afford to buy what is cheapest and going to fill that emptiness in our bellies.I want them to have milk so we buy that at $7 for a 4 litre jug...which only lasts a couple days in my house...so to buy the milk they need,other things have to suffer. I eat whatever happens to be left over or whatever will fill the hole.I don't profess to know what goes on in others lives,but in mine I know that money is the biggest issue for not getting healthy foods. I just wish people wouldn't be so critical without knowing the whole story.
I am so sure like it costs so much to buy some bananas or some healthy cereal instead of sugar ceral etc. How about lettuce boy that's an expensive. Last time I checked twinkies cost more than bananas  and lettuce. As Dr. Phil would say get real!
 
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happy
May 3, 2007, 5:47 pm PDT

not a size three

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You are abviously a perfect size 3 person who has no clue about reality.  Yes bananas are 50 cents a pound.  And last time I checked twinkies ARE  more expensive than lettuce but what is the shelf life on the stuff?!!  For a person on a fixed income to grocery shop, they go once a month or once every couple of weeks.  To spend $200.00 on the 1st of the month on healthy foods and good choices is great, but by the 7th of that month everything fresh is rotten.  Grow up and quit judging people on your perfect standards! 

You know no one says that you have to do all of your shopping the 1st of the month when you get your check. Maybe if you divide the money by shopping weekly you can pick up the healthy foods. Just sounds like excuses to me. Let me see you could shop at aldi's or save a lot  or whatever type of alternative store.  it just takes common sense.
 
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May 4, 2007, 8:42 am PDT

excues

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I agree, I too have many medical problems that can't be solved by pushing myself away from the table. Even if you can get the weight off, what do you do with all the lose skin if you can't afford to have it removed its just as bad as being heavy.I have worked two jobs most of my life at the same time til my body just couldn't do it anymore. I know I have a problem with food too, but most "healthy foods" are not in my budget after bills are paid. I do eat chicken boiled or baked and salads to the point I should have a bunny tail.I do what exercises i can do given my pain and back and other medical situations, but I go thru it alone,every female in my family is over weight, I have had my stomache staple once already and after you have a child, doesn't work so well, it wasn't the kind they do nowdays. I have had many relationships, most with alcoholics and no its not the same.Most real drinkers are very thin,but they never said anything about my weight. I weigh 350lbs,currently,was down to 200lbs. before having my child 16 yrs. ago it has taken ke that long to get back up to where I used to be, I am ashamed but, don't  know what to other than having a restapling, but was told I might not be able to be put to sleep and make it thru it. For all of you that do lose and maintain it -i'm proud of you.
I have a sister that was in a massive car accident a year ago even lost her job and sits around all day. Besides therapy that this is all the exercise she gets. Guess what? she's not 600lbs. However she doesn't eat 5,000 calories a day. guess that's what makes the difference. she also has other medical problems or insurance. So quit making up issues to make it okay to be obese! remember you can't change what you don't acknowledge!
 
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May 4, 2007, 8:55 am PDT

totally agree with you

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I'm sorry but I have to disagree.  Yes some healthy food is more expensive then some bad food - buy overall this simply isn't true.  Yes a box of frozen fish is cheaper then fresh fish - but the battered frozen fish (bad for you) isn't cheaper then the unbatter frozen fish (good for you).  Extra lean ground beef isn't more expensive then regular ground beef - in fact, because the weight is made up of more actual meat and less fat you are actually getting more for your dollar.  And buying extra lean ground beef is definitely cheaper then buying ready-made hamburgers which are loaded with fat because fat is a cheap filler for food manufacturers to throw in there.  

 

It's a myth that healthy food is more expensive.  MYTH.  And I did look at my grocery flyers today FYI.    Here is what I found:

 

Sausages or pork side ribes(high fat, high sodium, high calories) - 1.77/lb vs. fresh chicken breast - 1.77/lb

Ice cream's on sale - 5.99/2L - vs. frozen yogurt 3.49/2L

Fresh corn - 0.25/ear so for a family of 4 you could purchase 8 ears for $2 - vs. side dishes like fries ($1.97 per bag) or Sidekicks (bad for you) $1.99 each (supposed to be 4 servings).

Cucumbers - $0.79 each

Cauliflower - $1.47 each

Romaine lettuce hearts (3 - enough for about 3 family size salads) - $1.99

Snacks - ruffles or tostitos are $2.47 per bag vs. butter free microwave popcorn $2.97 for 6 bags!!!  Not to mention how much popcorn kernels you could buy and air pop for $2.47

Can of tuna (very good for you- makes about 2-3 sandwiches) - $0.97 vs. ham- $2.99/lb

 

I could go on but I really don't have to.  The fact is, everyone who can afford to buy groceries can make more healthy choices.  Maybe you can't afford to eat fresh salmon every night because it is very expensive, but certainly you can replace some awfully bad food like bologna with canned tuna or canned salmon.  Water costs less then high sugar juices and sodas.  It costs less to eat vegies as a side dish then most other options.  Maybe the healthy food you are looking at is the more expensive stuff and you just have to consider other alternatives.

 

Your right, no one did say that your shopping in the cookie isle.  We are simply saying it is possible to eat healthy foods at the same price as eating unhealthy foods.  It seems like you are getting overly upset about a simple discussion.  I'm sorry that you feel like your being attacked.    I do know my facts and I do use common sense in living a healthy lifestyle.

 
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happy
May 5, 2007, 7:41 am PDT

she's a loser

Quote From: manofgoods

Get that woman out of that marriage NOW! And get full custody of her children as well so that she wouldn't have to put up with his crap anymore! I just knew in my heart he hasn't changed. People like him make me so sick!
Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
 
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frustrated
May 8, 2007, 5:40 am PDT

whatever!

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I completely agree...

(For the record, I do not think this is an unattractive woman, as a matter of fact I remember thinking she was quite pretty during the commercials...just goes to prove your point further! LOL)
Give me a break who cares how pretty she is. She needs to get over herself! She should just get a divorce and not be with either of them. Obviously she is too screwed up to know what she wants and totally needs therapy for a long time to come.
 

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