Messages By: ibroyalpain

I find it very hard to believe that this girl  Katie Rees  wants people to be fooled that she does not remember ever having the photos taken. I think she is wanting to fool people. She just thought she would not get caught and to say she should have a second chance but proof being in the pudding so to speak it shows she did this more than one time. She deserved to be dethroned. I can not imagine having someone in the position to be a role model for our children could think nothing of this. I think she deserved what she got and she knew the rules of the contest, decided to take a chance that no one would find out about the pictures.She had many chances to come clean but decided to stand beside her decision to deny her knowledge of the pictures.

Dr. Phil is right about what Grace thinking and feeling. I have to be honest here that I had a sick perverted father who did these things to me. when a chilld is in fear they sometimes won't tell about what had happened to them and I applaud Grace for telling. I however had no one to tell and I would act out in skipping school etc but got no ones attention. I also rasied my babysister up and knowing that this sick man was doing this to me  I may be preventing her from having this done on her. It started when I was 12,  went on for 7 years and never once did I get an apology for what was done to me and I can never have a face off with this creep of a dad as his Death from cancer I will never have the chance to say a thing. I know it would be said why for that long but I had no where to go, no money , no way to take my sister with me as all the money I earned he kept even if I put a dollar to the side I was made to give it over to him. If I say anything now it is hard for I had kept this inside me for all my 26 of marriage and was able to tell my husband which I should have done before we even dated or married. I have lived with disgust of myself from this and have always wonderd why me. I do not believe this man or his wife when they think that all is okay for them to be with Grace again. I think that her parents should never give that opportunity to them at this time for to me they do not seem to see the gravity of it all. No child regardless of their age ever asks for a person that they trusted to do this evil on them nor will they ever trully be able to feel they can trust them in the future. ((((((((((HUGS))))))) to Grace. I am so proud of you for telling even though grandma who was no help at all you kept going and told your parents which was the best thing that you can do.  It makes me wonder if in the past something like this happened before and she covered it then. I find it hard that the father of Grace feeling bad and shedding tears for his father but not for his daughter. I wonder if his father did this to him when he was young and has blocked it out of his memory. I know that I have done that with all the abuse that went on in our family that I have to think really hard to find one happy memory. Just makes one wonder when he said that. Dr. Phil I hope you can help this little child over come this and know that she is just the victum and not the one responsible for the actions that the grandparents did against her.

This makes me so sick. To think that the grandfather still does not take any responsibility for his own actions but to blame it on some one else. To think that what he did was a normal thing. to think that the parents of Gracie would allow him to be back in her life. To think that as he sat there in the car with the wife to say that he thinks the parents were not hearing his pathetic reasonings for his unjust behavior. It makes me sick. he expected to see his son all in smiles as though seeing him was going to bring joy to his life. He is a nut case that needs to be locked in jail with all the others that molest children as they should not ever be left out of jail knowing that they will be able to do this again.

 

 

As for the grandmother she is just repulsive to think that all is going to be fine. One can not protect ones children or grandchildren from such a man as this husband of hers as there will always be that one minute where he back could be turned and that pervert will have his chance again as he had said in his last interview with Dr. Phil. It stll makes me wonder if the father had molested his son and she covered that up and is still covering that u p.

 

 

Todd-- not letting him off the hook here. I think that Cat needed to see him get really mad showing some kind of out rage at his parents especially his father. It still leads me to think that he was molested by this man and he has been trained to keep it quite and as I said before that some of these people who have been molested by their own parents, relatives, etc. may have blocked this from his memory as well. but I think Todd needs to really get mad and really know that this thing his parents did was wrong.

 

Cat-- You are right to keep your children away from this sick family. I think that the grandmother is in denial. This brings me back to Todd... I feel he should have shown more anger with his parents and that as a mother of children as a lion you would rip any one apart if they did something to your child and he should have become a lion as well. I hope that you can work through the marriage problems as it does take a lot out of a family when the parents are not getting along but the doctor was right that the child could blame theirselves for the parents seperating or divorcing.

 

Gracie-- I am so proud of you for standing up and saying soemthing. You should always tell and Adults know better where children are just learning. I am so glad and proud of you for standing up and saying something to your parents.

 

Dr. Phil...I wonder if you had thought on asking a bit of background on Todd as to whether anything like this had happened to him in his past. It did seem a bit funny to me that Todd did not shed tears for his daughter but he was able to cry for the man who lolested his daughter and was sent to jail for it. Do ytou think that He had done tjhis to Todd and that the grandmother also knew about this from the past and did not say a word then as she had been covering for him from when Todd was a child and that is why she did not follow through when she was told by her granddaughter? I know that any one who has children would have heard this child and confronted the offender.

It seems to me that if Cindy and Randy  are telling the truth they would be seeking out the custody of both grandchildren biological or nonbiological. The courts would not leave one child in an enviroment that is as bad as they are trying to make out  it to be. I feel that these two people are so upset that their son is in jail for drugs and that they have no child to focus all their emotions on that they have decided to focus on  Lexa as they are trying to replace their son. It seems that they will do what ever it will take to steal Micheles child from her. I found it disgusting to hear that Cindy went as far as to tell her  grand daughter that  she was the one to give birth to her and not her real MOm. Case and point made here with that as it shows the extremes that they will go to to get the child. My Advice to Cindy and Randy take family counciling if offered, let your granddaughter alone, if you are truly concerend don't focus on one but both children. Be adults instead of whinning babies.Quit Trying To Be The Parentso f Lexa and be THE GRANDPARENTS TO BOTH GIRLS.

 

Michele.. There will always be people out there that will say anything and do anything to get their own way. Take the family counciling that is offered and try to work out something. Grand parents are important to children but if it has to be withthem supervised visitations then seek that. If they truly want to be good grand parents they will step back and try to see this as they can live their life through their sons child because they can not have him there to control.

 

 Last but not least. To keep family unity in harmony one must be willing to sit together in a  conversation with out starting to call names, finger point, and mislead with false statements just so they can have what they want. People are watching all the time and remember you are to be setting an example for the children that they will use as they grow up. It should not be the example in behaviour that they are seeing with the adults acting like this as they need to be shown loving stable relationships can be formed for them to have the best chance for a future with their relationships with  boyfriends, future in laws, and each other. Lets be kind and do what is best for them.

Kikki and Gracie.. Gracie was ahead of the others. She has talent that will take her places and should be proud of her acheivements. You did deserve to win as you gave it your all and put your heart and soul into it. The judges are right that acting classes, dance, and voice lessons will just add to the talent that is already there. Kikki ..keep giving your daughter the support and keep trying to give her the encouragement that you have been doing. try to not let her know all the adult problems of money so her worries will be light for that will put pressure on her but now she has some exposure out there so may there be a smoother road ahead for your whole family.

 

Veronica and Maria... To Maria.. You did a good job but I think you should be encourgaged to taking voice lessons to improve upon the wonderful voice you already have. Remember to not try to be another Brittney Spears as in apperance as you should always act your age and not the size. The photos taken of you to look more mature than you are at the age you are will not impress upon agents as a child actor but may get intrest from the wrong sort of business. Keep your head held high as there is nothing you can not do if you set your mind to it..

To Veronica...It seems to me that you are trying to make your daughter to look like she is so much older than she is and if she is wanting to provide people with a postitive image of a 13 year old you should not dress her so provocatively unless you are trying to get her into the wrong kind of business such as Adult Entertainment which I am sure you know what I mean. You were given a chance to sell your daughters talent when you spoke to the gentleman at the table and instead of hitting every quality your daughter had you flat out said she has talent and there was no competition. You need to get over yourself as I think you are trying to live your life through your daughter  as you may not have made it as a big headliner but this is your daughter.It shows sour grapes when  Maria did not out shine the other children who preformed. Think of the image you are projecting for your daughter and try to clean up your act and your mouth. Also If I was a talent agent and I saw the behavor you were doing on the set like you did on Dr. Phil I would not be so willing to hire your daughter but then they could always ban you from being in the room for auditions and for any practices. keep this in mind..

 

Susan and Meagan.... you did a good job in the talent show. Dancing lessons, acting lessons, and voice are always a good way to make a better start. I was so happy to see that things were picking up for you and I say Meagan keep it up and you will go places. Susan.. it is okay to be competitive but don't be over bearing as you need to remember that she is your daughter and your relationship with her will also hinge on how you treat her even when you are trying to give the goal she has set for herself . It should always be a parent first and then a Backstage mother 2nd.

 

Kim and  Alaina,  You did a good job in the talent show. Take some dancing lessons, voce lessons, and acting lessons. You have a future just need to know that you need to keep a positive outlook and not get discouraged when it does not look good. They say where the one door is locked another opens up or a window does, just walk or crawl right out through t and keep on going. Do your best in school and keep going for your dreams..Kim.. Try to keep in mind that she is your daughter and the relationship is more important than the fact that she needs to be pushed for this career. It is a sad thing that had happened to your daughter but she can grow on this life lesson and make things better for yourselves. keep a positive out look on all and will be keeping your family in our prayers and healing for your husband.

 

Larissa and  Sasha, 14, Dmitri, 12 and Kyrian, 8.. Boys you have talent and you can go far. As the talent people on the show today it may be something that will be looked at as a show featuring the three of you in. I would reconsider the one song you changed to the word witch as it is important to always show respect for your parents whether you agree with them are not. You all have talent and such a great  sense of humor with each other. You have learned what it is to be a good sport in all that you do... Larissa... you need to try to back off a bit and quit being such a control freak and drill sargent. I know that is the way some people can be but remember the relationship you have with your children and the effects that it will have on your children in the future. Do keep giving encouragement to them for they do have talent. Congrats on Kyrian winning the one contest and for all the updated information that was given.

 

 

CONGRATS TO YOU GRACIE!!!!WE ARE PROUD OF YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I believe that there is a bit of a jealousy going on. The ex wife is upset with the amount of money that is spent and she can not provide these things for their children. She is wanting to make sure to make all decisions to be bad and I also think that she needs to back off. I think that the father needs to make sure ht echildren are getting what they are needing and that they are not suffering. Hopefully they can keep their issuesto theirselves as it leads to both sides putting the children in the middle. It did not say why The ex wife does not have a job and why is she on welfare? was there a medical reason? There are a lot of single parents out there that have to work to help bring money into the home and to think living on welfare will do it for all. I wonder how careful the money spending is going. I came from a family where there was sa divorce and both parents played against each other. Father would say bad things about mother and mother would say bad things about father. This leaves us their children to make our own decisions and to decided who is telling the truth. But it also caused a lot of anger in the children themselves.

The person called Vangie should know better. That  by marrying some one when she is already married is unacceptable. It is also something that she can go to jail for. I hope she realizes this fact  and does something about it.

 

As for the kids caught in the middle that is a story that needs to be made in the light for all parents who seperate or divorce from their spouses. I am one of those such kids that was in the middle of this situation. It messes the children up mentally and makes for low self esteem. Even before a break up they should watch what they say. I am still haunted by the events of my Mom leaving my father by walking down the road with 2 of my sisters ( one being 14 and the other 10) leaving my baby sister 12 and myself ( 12) behind. My father had my baby sister by him and I being in the middle near the hedges as my father yelling for me to come back in and my mother yelling as well " Stay with him you will go to an orphanage". It caused so much trauma for me who stood there crying and screaming as my heart broke by the way they behaved. I still to this day have the feeling of abandonment from loved ones.  Parents need to watch what they say to each other and not put their issues into their children trying to turn them against the other. it is so unfair to hear what a bad mother you have or to hear the mother tell her ex that "I don't want those two girls as they look to much like you ."  I think they need to come to some couciling to where they can have a resonable respect for each other to give their children a sense of peace and not a sense of fear for what will happen next or what the other is saying. Dr. Phil set them right on the whole thing.

I think that this mother-in-law Janet needs to stay out of the business of her son and his soon to be new wife. It is not her place to tell of all her sons escapades of sexual partners. She shojd not be telling any stories of that. I thikn she needs to be set straight.

  I think she needs to realize that she needs to step back and take a look at the bigger picture. This is the girl that her son loves and wants to marry . I think she needs to realize that she needs to not be telling stories of past girlfriends and such and change to the stories of how cute her sone was when he did baby things. It makes for a bond that could be built by the future daughter. it is better to do this as it means there will be visits from her son and daughter-in-law to be than to be cut off for the future. Dr. Phil set this mother right as sometimes it takes some one who knows more or has been there to make a person open their eyes.

I watched the show yesterday.I find that Christy has been playing things around in her mind a lot. Yes  Christy  in your mind. I think you have made things up in your mind so much that it has become so real to you that you believe it is real. Even though you took that  polygraph test it still showed you were lying about some things. I found it very harmful to your sister to say that she had 40 years to work on the lies she was telling. I find you are really needing mental help as a baby being born into the world does not come into the world with  the thought of " Let me think of what to say and do so that my children can be abused" Wake up and hear what you are saying. You have harmed your neices and nephew to the point where the one does not call you Aunt but my mothers sister that is really bad.  To say you had not chance to speak, not everything was said, it is so stupid for you to say that esepcailly since there is a recording of it, transcripts, and lots of viewers who saw it to and some of us saw it twice due to another family member not home when it came on.

 

Now in defense of reporting this happening. Yes, one should report when this happens but when it comes out in government agencies and courts that all the accusations made are not true. Then it is time for you to back off and leave it alone. You have a vendenta against your sister which is so unfair that it has blinded you in what is good for the children. Now you can include me into the comments that were not nice to you . Sorry, Christy, but you are in the wrong.

I can't believe that people are so self centered that they do not care about others who they have to share the road with. Talking on a cell phone, texting while driving, etc.. you get my drift. I do not appreciate people like this who do not think a thing about what they are doing and they could wind up killing some one because of their self centered attitude. This girl should have her phone completely taken away. I also believe that the courts should set up a paln of action for those who break the law and do things like this. Dr. Phil get her to realize that she is endangering all our lives by doing this and that she needs to concentrate on school work and doing the right thing instead of  texting ( yaking) with her firends.