Messages By: rrmjvand205

Because my husband has been shelling out $1000/mo for a boy whose mother was married to him less than a year, cleaned out his savings, ran up his credit cards, left and now reruses him visitation (for the last 10 years). I am supposedly this kid's stepmother and I've never even met him. Our marriage is wrecked by this whole thing. Women who pass her kids off as someone else's should not only be ashamed of themselves, they should be incarcerated!!

My husband's ex has refused to submit to a DNA test, defied five court orders to provide information about him to our attorney and the court system of Clarksville, Indiana and getw away with it. She also missed two court dates. She has never worked, told my husband she was a nurse practitioner who would be making $60,000/yr before they got married and then told him she couldn't find a job after they were married. We found out later that her nursing license had been yanked before she ever met him. This is fraud at it's utmost.

I, on the other hand, am infertile and never had children. It doesn't take brains to procreate. Few see the world from my perspective. My last husband abandoned me after nine years of marriage during which I endured four surgeries, an ectopic pregnancy that almost killed me, fertility drugs, shots, ultrasounds, blood tests until I was exhausted. The fertility drugs altered my personality and made me manic. When my ex couldn't take anymore, he walked out. He is now the father of a little girl by a woman who got pregnant to trap him into marriage.  Women who do that stuff are repulsive.

I do not attend baby showers, baptisms. I am an outcast from conversations that are supposed to be "women" conversations--pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, raising children, etc.  Yet women who do have children yammer yammer yammer on right in front of me about all of this garbage.

YOu can imagine my resentment at paying all of our income to some criminal who can't even provide proof this child is my  husband's.