Messages By: empress60

WE CARE OR WE WOULD NOT LOOK OR LISTEN. DON HENLEY SAID IT BEST IN HIS SONG "DIRTY LAUNDRY" (GEE PAPPARAZZI)" IS THE HEAD DEAD YET?"  ...BUT I THINK SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL AND SO IS DANNILYNN...GOOD LUCK TO HER AND GOD HELP US ALL.

WE JUST CAN'T STOP LOOKING AT THE TRAFFIC ACCIDENT.

YES OF COURSE THERE ARE THINGS WE WANT TO DO OVER; THERE ARE THINGS IN OUR PAST AND CHILDHOOD THAT WILL NEVER HEAL.

AS FOR MYSELF THE REMAKE I DID FOR MYSELF BY MYSELF TRANSCENDED A TOTAL EMOTIONAL COLLAPSE. I WORKED LIKE A DEMON TO REINVENT MYSELF.

NOW AGAIN I AM WORKING TO AGAIN MAKE MYSELF OVER ALONG WITH MY DEEPLY ROOTED PERSONALITY FLAWS THAT ONLY SLAP ME IN THE FACE, NOW I AM OLDER AND

HOPEFULLY WISER;FORGIVING THE TORTUROUS EVENTS THAT I ALONE ALLOWED TO HOLD ME BACK. WELL, A NOT SO WONDERFUL BEDSIDE MANNER BUT ARTFUL SURGEON TOLD ME I HAD BETTER WIN THE LOTTO TO PAY FOR ALL I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE DONE CAN YOU IMAGINE THE HURT????.

I HAVE A STRONG DETERMINATION AND I PRAY I CAN LOOK MYSELF IN THE MIRROR ONEDAY AND SEE AN OLDER BUT BEAUTIFUL ME AND NOT HIDE ANYMORE.MAYBE YOU CAN GO OVERBOARD WITH PLASTIC SURGERY, BUT GOOD LORD, I WOULD DO A DOUBLEBACK FLIP FOR THE CHANCE!!!

SADLY SOME PEOPLE LIKE THE ATTENTION FIGHTING GENERATES. THEY ALSO LIKE THE MAYBE RADICAL SEX THAT ENSUES AFTER THE FIGHT. IN ANY CASE WE HAVE SO MANY NOT ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIORS THAT ARE HATEFUL HURTFUL AND PAINFUL. OUR WORDS ARE VERY OFTEN DRIVEN DEEP INTO THE HEART OF ANOTHER THAT IT IS FRESH LONG AFTER THE BRUISES HAVE FADED.

THE IN LAWS SHOULD BE A MODEL LIKE ANYONE WHO GIVES ADVICE.  ACTIONS SUCH AS THIS AND ALL OTHERS ALWAYS FUNNELS DOWN TO THE PAIN THE CHILD FEELS.

I HAVE HAD MOTHERS IN LAWS THAT MAKE THESE PALE.

THE HATE MAIL INSIDIOUS THREATS AND DEMEANING COMMENTS WERE SO HORRIBLE I WONDER WHY I NEVER SLAPPED THE CRAP OUT OF THESE WOMEN.

 I NOW SEE THEM AS SOULS WITH HOLES...AND I STEPPED UP TO BE A LITTLE TALLER AND A LITTLE WISER AND CAN NOW GLEAN THROUGH SOME OF THE THINGS THAT WERE ACTUALLY GOOD ABOUT THEM ,ONE BEING LEARNING ABOUT GARDENING. TO THIS DAY MY YARDS AND PROPERTIES ARE BEAUTIFUL GARDEN SPOTS,

 NOW I HAVE LEARNED TO WORKOUT FROM THE OTHER HATEMONGER. THANKS B-----S FROM HELL!!!!!!!GOOD BLESS US ALL!! HUGS TO DR. PHIL AND ROBIN AND ALL THE 

HELPERS WHO ARE ASTOUNDING!  BY THE BY FOLKS, MY MOTHER IN LAW DOES NOT SPEAK A WORD OF ENGLISH AND IS THE ABSOLUTE LOVING SALT OF THE EARTH.

SENI COK SEVIYORUM ANNEM!!(ILOVE YOU SO MUCH MY MAMA IN TURKISH)

DEAR LORNA

I DO NOT KNOW HOW LONG IT HAS BEEN SINCE YOU WERE ABLE TO SHAVE YOUR LEGS;SIT CROSSED LEGGED; GET DOWN ON TO YOUR HANDS AND KNEES TO RETRIEVE SOMETHING;GO OUT FOR A MILE WALK AT A CRISP PACE;TIE YOUR SHOES;SEE YOUR TOES STANDING UP; HAVE SPACE IN YOUR EASYCHAIR AFTER YOU SIT DOWN;CLIMB COMFORTABLY INTO A CAR AND DRIVE WITH EASE;GET DRESSED IN A FLASH;GO CLOTHES SHOPPING BECAUSE YOU FEEL GOOD;USE A SMALL PLATE TO PUT A REALISTIC AND HEALTHY MEAL ON;DRINK ONLY SUGARFREE SODA;HAVE NO TROUBLE LOOKING IN THE MIRROR HEAD TO TOE;FEEL TOTALLY COMFORTABLE WITH YOU AND NOT WORRY ABOUT HOLDING ONTO A MAN BECAUSE YOU CAN'T HOIST YOURSELF UP FOR THE MANY MULTI TASKS OF A NORMAL DAY.....AND THE LIST GOES ON.

WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE TO DO?

IN A YEAR IF YOU FOLLOW DR. PHILS  DIET AND EXCERISE PLAN YOU CAN COME ON THE SHOW AND NO ONE WILL HAVE THE WILDEST GUESS THAT THAT LOVELY WOMAN WAS A SAD,PAINFUL CREATURE ENTRAPPED IN AN OVERCOAT OF SELF ABUSE AND AVOIDANCE.

COME ON OUT AND LIVE;WON'T YOU?

LOVE,

EMPRESS 60

That is what I feel life is. What part of life is not?

I have been up and down;largest was 328 and I worked LIKE A DEMON to lose 9 sizes. Now I am facing 30 pounds that must go....but When you are older you cannot workout so strenuously as I once did. But I am amazed at the rebounding energy and go get it tivenes I possess because I CHOOSE IT!  I see Americans 20 years younger who cannot keep up with me and I have arthritis in the spine shoulders etc...so I do yoga and treadmill and weights and walking.We all must forego our poor eating HABITS and learn not to overeat...not to have huge portions...not to be content to sit. We attract what we are sweetie and if we want to live richly and divinely we must of ourselves as divine and treat the temple with more love and respect. WE CAN DO IT>>>>>>>and stay at the smaller end. Now I choose not to eat anything white,,,and if I sample a tidbit of chocolate ;it is so sweet and rich as I cannot begin to describe.STAY FOCUSED ON THE CHANGE THAT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BEAUTIFUL ON THE OUTSIDE AS WELL...LOVE,EMPRESS M