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April 7, 2007, 5:00 pm PDT

Hyperemesis Gravidarum

I know what Allison suffered from as I am surviving it now. I am currently 15 weeks and 2 days pregnant with our first child. I have been suffering from HG since week 6 when I was admitted to the ER for dehydration. Since having HG I've been limited to eating small portions of very bland food (noodles, toast, chicken broth, etc), with severe nausea and vomiting. As of today I've lost a total of 39 lbs because of HG. I take 4mg of Zofran every 4 hours so that the small portions of food and liquid I can eat/drink stay down - although I'm still vomiting once or twice a day. I also take Reglan, Pepcid, Unisom, and Tylenol for the nausea and constant headaches from being dehydrated. These medications have helped me to sustain my life to the point that I can go work as a teacher and then come home (although HG has already caused me to miss 10 days of work thus far). Yesterday was the first day I saw my nephews in 2 months, when I normally was able to visit them every weekend or so. This disease has taken my normal, active life and turned it upside down. Now, my husband does all of the housework, because I do not have the energy to do so. Showering and getting dressed are sometimes my biggest tasks for the day.  Although my husband and I had decided that we would have two children in our family, HG has decided for us that our family will only be blessed with one.

 

Thank you Dr. Phil for exposing the public to this horrible disease. We need the public to be educated on Hyperemesis Gravidarum so that a cause and a cure can be found - so that our daughters will not have to suffer like we are today. Without public awareness on HG, women all over the world are suffering in silence. Let's change that today.

 
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April 12, 2007, 5:52 pm PDT

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Quote From: tinachris1981

Unfortunately, I think this woman shows lack of good judgement. I think she shows evidence that she is not mentally stable. Even though these are her biological children, any one in their right mind would not attempt to give them up twice and then expect to get them back. By the pattern that she has shown, I am worried that this pattern may continue and she may continue trying to abandon her children on more occassions in the future..If that is the case, do you really think it's healthy for a child to see their parent repeatidly attempting to give them up?..I understand she had a disease at the time these bad decisions were made but I think it would be in the best interest of the children to leave them in what sounds like a much more stable environment.....I have a son and I know how important it is that decisions are made with his best interest in mind. If she was so worried about her health but didn't truly want to give her children up, why didn't she create a will and still have full custody of her children? That way if anything happened to her, her children would be taken care of, but in the mean time, she would still have full custody of her children...
When you're suffering from HG, you're not worrying about making a will or making plans for the future,  you're worried you won't wake up in the morning. I suggest you educate yourself on the DISEASE of HG at www.helpHER.org - maybe then you'll have some sympathy for Allison and the disease she suffered from.
 
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April 12, 2007, 5:59 pm PDT

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I saw the show & completely understand the adoptive parents reluctance to appear.  I would have been more sympathetic to Allison, but she made the comment that the aparents aren't parents, this is so wrong.  The parent is the person who comforts a child when they're hurt or sick.  I am an adoptee & my aparents were always my parents.  I'm also an adoptive parent and my son knows that he has 2 mothers & 2 fathers, but we are the ones that take care of him.

Why didn't she ask for help?? Surely there is someone in her family who could have helped her, if not, I'm sure the state could have helped. Sorry, she signed the papers, the babies have bonded with the aparents & they are old enough to know if they are taken away from them.  By the time this is all straightened out these poor babies will be 2½ or 3years old & hopefully a judge will show some compassion for them& leave them with the parents they know.

I also wonder why the ex-boyfriend dropped out of the picture.  Did he ever intend to help her care for the child/children??

The state? Doctors don't even know about this disease and you think the state would have helped her?

 

She signed the papers UNDER DURESS, she was suffering from the effects of a DISEASE and because of that, their "adoption" isn't legal.

 

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