Messages By: lvjackson

ALL of these (swingers) need to sit down and take a good look and the bible, so they can understand what a marriage is.  I am sure that you will find that the bible does not say one word about swinging!

I have seen both sides of this story.  One my friends sister in law got pregnant at 15 had the baby at 16 at first she was the perfect mother to her child, then it all started going down hill the little girl came home one day at 5 months with a burn on her leg, the mother said a lamp feel on her.  That was one of the many things that followed, the little girl calles her grandmother mommy and calls her mom by her name because she does not see her at all.  The mother will drop the little girl off and go, she has taken three people to court so far to try to her child support, guess what none of them were the fathers.  The girl wanted a baby so bad she went out and has sex with everyone I suppose.  I do feel sorry for her because I think all she wanted was someone to love her and she did not realize all the responsibilty that comes with it.

On the other hand I have seen many that became pregnant while still in high school, finish school and still be great mothers, which makes me proud of them!

The story reminds me so much of my wedding it is unreal.  Five years ago I said my vows to a drunk husband.  The worst thing of it all is that my grandfather married us and could smell and tell that my husband had been drinking.  Our wedding was at 4:30 and my husband had already gone to the parking lot with his groomsmen consumed a fifth of liquor and stumbled his way to the alter, I did not see him walk to the alter of coarse but the ones that did said they were real surprised he made it.  Fast forward to the reception my husband danced one song with me and that was it the rest of the time he was drinking and carrying on with his friends.  He told a friend of mine that if he was not  married he would go home with her right in front of me in my wedding dress, he says he was picking which he probably was but you do not say that on your wedding day.  They played our song at the end of the night to dance to again and my new husband was no where to be found, my brother in law danced it with me.  I finally got him out of there and he did not say a word to me the whole way home pucked in the yard and went to bed, I managed to get out of my dress myself and slept on the couch.  Today I have forgiven him but it is something I will never forget.  I love my husband dearly and always will but a wedding is very important to a girl