Quote From: dianeja
Sometimes I wish that was the problem but here is my problem: My husband and I have been married for almost 21 years. During that time he has taken money from a worker/friend to see me coming out of the shower with no clothes on. He has set up a threesome with another coworker from the next job that he went to. I told him that I wasn't interested but he picked out linguree for me to wear that night. We have four kids ages 15,17,19 and 21. Now of course the 21 year old is very seldom here but he is always with the 19 year old working he says. He doesn't sleep with me we have no llife together at all. Which is worse too much or None at all............
My husband also wanted me to have sex with friends of his. I don't think he even cared 'who' as long as he could watch. I never, however, did because it seems so demeaning. I have demeaned myself in other ways but one would never guess it by looking at me. Regardless, this is wrong, fundamentally, morally wrong. Why? Because unless you asked for the threesome, a walk in on the shower for money...it is wrong. Now, I am not sure if this in ongoing but alot of stuff can happen in 21 years of marriage and I don't think one weeks worth of mistakes defines your relationship. Thus, two days out of those years he asked for a threesome. They were not 'deal breakers' because you are still with him. Maybe someday you will decide that this is YOUR life and only YOU own it. If YOU decide to spend the rest of your life unhappy....then you are giving it to him. But there are millions of men out there that would treat you right.
