Messages By: alishia

Jeffrey desperately needs help, that is more than obvious.  However, Jennifer definitely isn't as innocent as she appears.  She appears to have this need to show off for as men as she possibly can.   She said some friends forced her to go out when Jeffrey was in rehab.  When she is there, she is posing for pictures with as many men as she possibly can, give me a break!  She is extremely cunning, manipulative and an extremely good actress.  Her main goal in life seems to be getting men's attention.  She got Jeffrey's attention, got the man, she is now bored with him and moving on.  If you ask me, she has a lot of problems of her own.  She posts pictures of herself on the web in all kinds of provocative poses and with pictures of herself and other men, what exactly does that say about her as a person?  Who wants to be married to a tramp like that?  She certainly doesn't want to be  married, she wants to be single again and sleep with as many men as she possibly can.  Of course this is definitely going to have an effect on her husband, what husband wouldn't be upset by her despicable behaviour?  How would she like it if she was married to a man that would have his own web site like hers?  A person with morales wouldn't do the kinds of things that she has been doing.  She is deliberately provoking her husband.  It's some kind of sick game that she enjoys playing.  She makes me sick!

I was in a very similar situation to Jennifer.  My ex wasn't quite that crazy as far as tracking me when I was with since I've left him my kids have seen him "fixing my phones".  Also he had a former high school friend pretend to want to date me and then "install cameras in my house when I left shopping for half hour one night."  They tell me he can hear all my telephone conversations and threatens to kill guys I date and has been trying since the day I walked out to "take my sons away from me." 

I thought when I finally regained some of my self-esteem and self-worth I would be on top of the world when I left my ex-husband.  Well since I've left he has destroyed relationships I've had with other men by intimidating and threatening them.  He abuses me through our children and the worst part of him is that he continues to abuse my children.  He has lost visitation rights for four months, was charged, pled guilty for assaulting my oldest son.  The courts granted him back his rights, since then he has continued to assault my gorgeous innocent sons phyiscally, emotionally, financially and verbally.  He has assaulted my little 6 year old at least 12 times in the past 5 months.  He threatened my baby that if he refused to visit him again that he would beat him up or mommy until she's bleeding all over the place.  The police are taking this so lightly and are not taking the necessary steps to protect my children and I.  They know the history, they know my children are in danger.  My heart bleeds daily knowing I have to keep sending them to this disaster zone.  My sons are modelling this man's behavior and they lash out at me and each other.  They are becoming very abusive themselves and I am terrified about their future.  My ex will not stop until he pressures my oldest son into living with him.  My son is about to explode and is extremely disturbed.  My little guy is confused because he's told professionals about the abuse and his mom and yet nothing is being done.  He still needs to go visit to a dangerous person.

I've seen so many shows on Oprah and Dr. Phil and cannot believe why our laws are so leniant here in Canada.  My ex belongs behind bars and for more than just a day.  He deserves to stay there for a few years for all the trauma he has caused and is still causing us.

I would love feedback from readers.  There are so many abusive people out there.  To all of you women, you are worth so much more.  It only gets worse, it never gets better.