Messages By: emmaloo

Quote From: belleperez

I cannot believe how Dr. Phil did not take the opportunity to tell Danny how when you go on to 2nd and 3rd marriages the chances of its success is less . When Danny claimed he was ready to enter a new marriage days after his divorce, Dr. Phil should of warned Danny not to remarry until he's done the work to cleanse his heart and comes to terms with the end of his first marriage. Obviously Gretchen has reached the right place in her life/heart and is ready to go on. It will be so unfair for him to marry someone without first doing the work on putting closure to his first marriage. I hope if Dr Phil is the friend he claimed to be of Dannys off screen, he should tell him he needs some counseling before he blindly jumps into a 2nd marriage for the sake of just being married. Danny will be bringing in a hugh amount of baggage into any  new marriage and needs help on managing it.

Quote From: silleme

Dr. Phil,  why didn't you tell Danny that he needed to work on himself rather then run into the arms of another woman.  Any man that says he has to be married makes a very poor husband.  He needs to work on himself and be comfortable in his own skin.

 

He came off as a total jerk.  I pity the poor woman that follows after his wife. 

 

You were so wishy washy;  get a grip.  Tell him to work on himself.  He says he is in love with his  wife... but he would remarry in three weeks!    At that point,  why didn't you ask him his definition of the word love....  I know I sure wanted to know what his definition was.  I think I can say with certainty that whatever his definition is,  it is not mine.  

 

Well I could go on and on;  but just suffice it to say...  what a disappointment you were.

Quote From: nyromriell

    What is going on with these parents?  Especially the "mother", if she saw this in any of her client's homes wouldn't she be bound to intervene?

     What is going on with the extended family?  Why aren't the "parents" (I use the term loosly) siblings and parents intervening on behalf of these girls?  When the immidiate famly is falling apart it is the duty of the extended family to help.

     What is going on with the teachers and school staff that are supposed to be under manditory reporting laws?  These girls are being neglected and abused. 

     What is going on with you Dr. Phil?  The dad isn't the one who deserves a trip to a fancy treatment facility.  Isn't there some school, camp, institute or something that can give these to innocent girls the help, care and treatment that they so desperatly need and deserve?   The father chose to drink and the mother chose to enable but the girls are forced to deal. 

Quote From: no_justice

I have no idea who Carnell Smith or Gloria Allred is, but it sounds like both of them need to do what most judges and attorneys in Chancery Court need to do. (For those who are not familiar with injustice that means they need to get their head out of their crack.) I hope Enrique no longer has to pay child support to a child that is not his biological child. I hope the mother of that child has to return every penny of illegal child support she stole from Enrique. I hope the mother gets the child support her child deserves from the biological father, who should have been paying child support from the very beginning if he is alive and able to do so. Every man that has been paying child support to a child that is not his biological child should sue Gloria Allred and people similar to her to send a message that men who are not the biological father of a child should not have to continue the lie of being the biological father and they should not have to continue paying for a child that is not their biological child. Once a man has discovered that he is not the biological father of a child and he still wants to be a father to that child and pay child support to the child he should be allowed to do so of his own choice and he should be commended for doing an honorable deed. And that child should thank him for it and be grateful that he or she has a man like him in his or her life.

This paragraph is in response to the first 5 messages posted on October 27, 2007 by Princess1, lovthesand1, vixiex, joyklein and archladydi respectively. In some states the child can sue the biological father, after the age of 18 years, and get the child support money he or she did not receive. Be glad the biological father was not in your sons life and stop thanking god and thank your husband for being who he is and hopefully your son is grateful for having a real man in his life. In the real world and in America women do NOT have an advantage over men. Any man who is being "accused" of being the biological father of a child should immediately request a DNA test if he is in doubt. If he does not then he must want to pay child support for a child that is not his biological child. And if a man does not want any children, he can always get a vasectomy and prevent future children he does not want to be responsible for. I agree, fathers are more than a checkbook, but for those who are not fathers they can be good providers and the woman and the mans biological child should be grateful for that at least. If two people want a special bond to remain in tack, they will ignore that lack of biology and continue the love that was meant to be and be grateful for one another. Women do ask for DNA test. If a man truly wants to know if a child is his biological child he will take the DNA test or request it himself. Women who know that a man is not the father and just flat out lie should be legally prosecuted in some way. Maybe not jail, unless it is an absolute last resort, but punishment is definitely in order. And I hope all men falsely accused can some day find peace. Again, a man can request a DNA test and should if he feels he is not the biological father. I, personally, am sick and tired of hearing about the rights of mothers and fathers. I want to hear about the rights of children. No one is fighting for their rights. What do the children want? Who do the children want to live with? When will the children be listened too. The children should go to the parent that is emotionally capable of raising the child in a stable loving environment. If the child is happy where he or she is, leave him or her where he or she is. And the father should not get a free pass from his responsibilities. Lying and dodging responsibility is not acceptable from either biological parent.

I know I will miss a good show that day and I probably will not be able to read any more comments after today, but I wish you all well.

Quote From: marianparoo

in the news about this here!

 

Marian Paroo

Tel Aviv, Israel

Quote From: darkkiwi

Would everyone be so upset if Abdullah was a guy named Pierre in France?  Granted he comes from a different culture, but these things can work if both families are supportive.  I wouldn't want my child in a war zone, but I don't think Abdullah is the devil incarnate like it seems he's being portrayed.  Couldn't this be as simple as two young people falling in love and wanting to be together no matter the obstacles.  Didn't Shakespeare write about this very thing in Romeo & Juliette?  I was married to an Israeli and now am dating a Bosnian Muslim.  Islam can be positive as long as the religious person isn't an extremist, same as in Christianity or Judaism.  I wish for all involved happiness, and a long life in peace.  Salaam, Shalom.

Quote From: patsyjo

I have the oddest feeling that this guy is such a showman sociapath that he is just flat out knowingly lying! I also would not be surprised if his wife is cut from the same cloth. My only clue to the possibilty that she is sociapathic also is when she took all those pills and called him.......duh. Be careful Dr Phil they are hoaxing you.

Quote From: juliebgg

I strongly disagree with what you say.  When you are on a plane you are couped up in close proximity for many hours.  Why should decent people be subjected to the obnoxious and rude behavior of others?  Why should  we have to keep "dumbing down" society to accommodate losers such as these girls.  Thank you but I do not intend to "adjust my mind' to accommodate them.