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January 13, 2009, 9:08 pm PST

10/29 Gender Confused Children

Quote From: systole

My nephew was very confused growing up, and he loved to dress as a girl. He played with dolls and he had few friends because of his secret obsession with Barbie dolls. In his mind he knew this was not acceptable among other people so would pretend he was buying them for his sister.

He is very clever, but had a hard time adjusting to normal life and spent a great deal of time doing things with his mother, who he was very close to. After a few years of trying to go to normal school and a couple of suicide attempts, I now hear that at 18 he believes he is gay. I have not seen him in a few years, but I do not think he is gay. I think that he is confused about all his life and he thinks this is an easier route. I do not know if he has had sexual gay relationships, or this is what he believes he wants.

I do believe that his life of confusion has led him to be very unhappy, and his home life had a great deal to do with this confusion
I don't think he is anymore confused about his gender than you are about yours. These children know who they are inside the fact that there are troubles at home does not cause ones gender. Look at your life you didn't come from a "normal family" and you don't seemed to be confused about what gender you identify is.
 
January 13, 2009, 9:32 pm PST

10/29 Gender Confused Children

Quote From: ailema

I agree with you , when someone has morals & values and want to state their case on the Dr. Phil Show I find they are soon cut off and no one really gets to hear what they have to say. Either one is on either side of the fence. If one is a Christian then stand up and say so but don't sit on the fence like I see on his show
Get off the cross somebody needs the wood! This isn't about religion!!!!!! I suppose that a child born with a birth defect was because the mother sinned. Do you see the ignorance. These children didn't choose this they were born this way. Look at the study they did on twins. The Doctor was right they have proven that this happens in the womb within the first trimester. If you have a complaint make it with God that he didn't make a full proof system there are some kinks in the wiring. We must have love and compassion for those that are different than ourselves.
 
January 13, 2009, 9:37 pm PST

10/29 Gender Confused Children

Quote From: rylies

Please don't bring onto the show rude mothers who will not let others speak of an opinion different to their own. It was hard to watch Toni being so disrespectful and rude! I want to hear the difference in opinions on this topic, not who's eligible to speak about it. Telling people to their face that their theory sucks and that they are plain wrong doesn't convince anyone anything except perhaps you are the close-minded person. Toni just made me want to turn off the TV.

 

As for the term "Natural Heterosexual", I believe that makes sense because boy and girl makes babies and that's natural. None of the other combinations can do that. Heterosexuality is a big part of why you are here.    

Just a heads up these transgender people can also reproduce. You are confused about the topic.
 

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