Messages By: laripat

 I also was a a fan of the Brady Bunch growing Up.  I am glad to hear MAureen is taking postive steps to get help for her Dad. It does seems like her brother Kevin is mentally ill and needs help.  I hope they can get the Dad away from him and into a Retirement Village where he can be happy and be with people his own age.  Good for Maureen for trying to stand up to Kevin.

Sometimes talking to a person who is not with it, will just get you frustrated. Let the courts now handle it.  I hope she will never feel guilty at all. She seems like a loving daughter trying to get help for her Dad.  Maureen your fans hope it works.

  I feel sorry for the parents who for the last two years tried to get their underage daughter to understand why it was not good to be married from a man from a different culture. But at 18 she is now a adult and I would say, Good Luck and happiness.  At that age she does not really understand the big cultural differences and living with a man she does not really know.   Some day she might be sorry but she might be stuck in a country she can't come back from.   Young love saying but I Love him is not enough.

   Maturity and sharing life together when you are ready to be married is certainly not for any 18 year old.

    I waited until 30 to get married. I loved my 20's. I would not trade all the vacations and expereinces for anything. Plus I grew up and learned to take care of myself. I am now married 15 years and Love my husband, and am a better mother than I would have been at 19 or 20.

 I watched the show  on  Thurs. How sad that she is naive. She keeps saying, we are so in Love. I want to be with him the rest of my life what kind of life does she have planned.  Where   do they plan to live if they come to th U.S., He was caught in a lie about having the house in Laguna Beach,Calif. Oh, now he says he sold it afer they broke up. When was that. Does   not seem like they ever broke up really.They    kept corresponding for the last 2 years.How   was that  broken up. I am sue Dr.Phil'sshow  can prove he never owned that house in Laguna Beach, ask him for that address, papers that he sold it.  What a lie to her

that he had in the last 2 years fild papers to come here. At least now she knows that is a lie.

I hope she wll have th courage to com home and really let him go home and away from her forever.

  Someday she will look back at this and think , What was I thinking.  At 18 she should notbe so

focused about getting married.  What about finishing her High School graduation, maybe college,

her future should be about choices, about her, What does she want to do in life.  If she really married him,

then what, would she just get any job or let him work to support her .  At 18 she should be happy

have friends, and make her future what she wants.   Good Luck Katherine. 

  How sad for Aimee that for years she has been sick withthis disease. Is't her mother a enabler?

   How does she get all the food? She does not work? It seems like her whole day is eating and

purging and being sick. What a way to live life.  I do think it is mental illness. How they can they refocus her about having a healthy life, working, being independent.  They said her bones were of a 90 year old. All the damage to her body she has done and her teeth. I don't think her body can recover. To much damage. To bad her Dad did not realize how he had neglected her emotionally. But also One

very traumatic event should not define your whole life. Is she not trying to grow up.

   Get the Mom to stop buying all the food, How about getting the Mom help too.

       I wish her the best.

 I do believe the Grandma should continue to raise her grandson. The daughter Nicole has so many non answers, Who is she kidding. She does not seem stable, I hope DCFS will look into the new baby situation. The courts said she forged her parentss signature, she just blows it off , she was charges withe leaving a rented home and not paying the rent, she said she does, I think I believe the court. Why would you ever leave a rented a home a pigsty, and just move out with no warning. Guess I don't believe Nicole paid the rent. Oh, she had lapse in Insurance coverage, Who should be responsible for keeping that up to date, Oh I think the mother, What she she owes the mother $1500.00 for past help, guess they won't see that. The school says absent 23 days, The Mom disagrees, I think I believe the schools records. Nicole should let her Mom raise her son, and the new baby too. I am sure she has no boyfriend involvement with anymen for these children. What a loser she is. She she be honest and face the facts.