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Messages By: queenegypt
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September 1, 2007, 5:09 pm PDT
 Quote From: kstryk The DAUGHTER-IN-LAW can be the instigator just as well and turn the son against the mother. no one knows what exactly she tells her husband about what his mother did or said to her. My DIL is very obsessive. they have not been married 1 year yet and have a 4-month-old son whom I have seen once. they live in another state. she has now stopped sending me any pictures of my only grandson although she continues to send weekly pictures to others. We were not invited to the baby's baptism. I am very hurt and have had many days where all I do is cry because I can't see or be near my grandson or be a part of his life. this gal has problems and wants me no where near her house, the baby and my son. I won't play her game. I hope she eventually gets the help she needs but I'm afraid this marriage won't last and it is going to be my son who loses. AGAIN>>>>> the DIL can be the instigator and "tell" her husband that his mother is at fault..... two-way street here. So who does the son side with???? Either way he loses. I do SO hope that Dr. Phil will show the opposite side of this topic! My son-in-law has the brain of a seagull and shows it with every word, every move, every action he takes. When my daughter first got serious with him, I welcomed him into our family, showered him with love, attention & gifts (and money...he LUVED the money..his hand was always the first one out), I treated him like I now had a son to love. He plays the game well, he acted like he just LUVED me back, all the while he was telling his buddies the opposite, told them when he knew that I was coming, he would leave. I could write pages about the 'real' jerk that he is and it took me about 10 years to accept the kind of thing he is. He is a mama's boy and would (and has) kick his children or his wife to the curb to oooch up to his mama, it is disgusting. There have been many arguments between my daughter & myself because of the seagull. For some reason, my daughter takes his side and for months at at time, I am kept from seeing my grandchildren, so I just try to ignore him, keep my mouth shut and give my grandchildren all of the love that I can, when I get the chance. This jerk has applied to many jobs where a psychiological tests was given and he has yet to pass. He does not pass any of the parts of it. PLEEZE....DR. PHIL....SHOW THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN ON THIS TOPIC! p.s. I would not miss any of your shows...:-) |
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