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I can see a little bit of my husband in Grant. Luckily he is not as bad though. He's never handed me a list. I've been married for 15 years. The first year of our marriage I got pregnant and gave birth to a very sick baby. She died at the age of 2 . Also during that first year I got the same virus she had and have been dealing with a chronic illness that leaves me weak, in pain and exhausted at times.
I have two small children and stay at home. For my own sanity I finally hired a maid once a month just to do the heavy cleaning. Everyone is built differently and has different energy levels. I finally stopped comparing myself to everyone else!!
I think Grant should be thankful that he has healthy wife and kids. God forbid if she got sick and couldn't do as much.
My husband and I still struggle with this. I hope and pray some day he will be more understanding. I say if you can afford it get help.
Sincerely,
Mirandakay
