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June 16, 2007, 3:49 am PDT

Confronting my father

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Have any of you ever confronted your abuser about the sexual abuse? If so, how was it handled? This opportunity has recently come up for me and I want to take advantage of it. But what does one actually say? I just want to truly resolve this part of my life so that I can move on. Any advice?
I confronted my father.  I hated him so much then all I did was yell and tell him how worthless he was.  It's normal to be mad.  I didn't hold back.  I don't regret it.  I think it was actually helpfull for me at least.  Funny thing is I don't really hate him anymore, just what he did.  I'm a grown woman know and have realized that I'm in control of my life now.  What happens in my life happens because of the decisions I make and my choices.  He no longer has the power and control of me.  It's a good feeling when you realize that.  It's your life now and you have a choice.
 

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