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August 27, 2007, 9:17 am PDT

My 6 year old stepson.......

My 6 year old stepson thinks he is a girl to no end.He calls himself Kaitlyn.Plays with dolls,is very prissy,whines and cries to get his way,wears shirts or towels on his head and says it is his hair.AND not to mention he will just out of the blue when he is around other little boys strike a girl(stripper like) pose around them.My husband says he has done this since he could walk.I am wondering does anyone else have a little one like this?
 
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October 29, 2008, 8:02 am PDT

My son is transgender at 7 years old since 2

Dr Phil your show has sure it a nerve today.I have never been so upset at all the people who think that the parent is causing this.I have a question for everyone would you deny your child of anything you know will not hurt them.Who cares if boys are feeling and acting as if they are girls and vice versa.My 7 yr old has done it since he was 2.He goes to school everyday with a purse and a necklace on.He has been made fun of.He has told me this, but I tell him that is how people are and you have to learn to ignore them if this is really what you want.I told him the other day we were going to have him try boy toys and take away the girl clothes and he gave me a face like I killed his best friend.It is too painful to shun him from the things he enjoys or because of the way he acts.I could honestly take away all girl things and his actions alone are more girlie than the girliest girl in the world.I can say I am usually in better mood after I vent, but your show with what the non-believers were saying has me still upset.
 
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October 29, 2008, 8:17 am PDT

One more thing

I would like to state that this is not just hard on the child it is hard on us, too.We do not understand why our 7 yr old is more girlie than me.It hurts My Husband and I everyday.We sometimes argue about it when he is at school(never in fromt of him).We accept him 100% and would NEVER unclaim him.He already has anxiety and acts sad at times from the kids at school.I am confused on this whole thing as well as my husband.It goes through our heads everyday "should we let him play with this stuff or take it away or should we really be letting him where girl pajamas to bed" And many more questions along with it.So I want to say unless you have a child that is like this shut the hell up.You could help by teaching your children that everyone is different so they can stop making mine feel like an outcast.
 
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October 29, 2008, 11:08 am PDT

excuse my misspellings

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I would like to state that this is not just hard on the child it is hard on us, too.We do not understand why our 7 yr old is more girlie than me.It hurts My Husband and I everyday.We sometimes argue about it when he is at school(never in fromt of him).We accept him 100% and would NEVER unclaim him.He already has anxiety and acts sad at times from the kids at school.I am confused on this whole thing as well as my husband.It goes through our heads everyday "should we let him play with this stuff or take it away or should we really be letting him where girl pajamas to bed" And many more questions along with it.So I want to say unless you have a child that is like this shut the hell up.You could help by teaching your children that everyone is different so they can stop making mine feel like an outcast.

I misspelled alot in my previous posts excuse me for that (upset happens).I wanted to mention that my brother Kevin watched this show and he agrees with the people who are not believing they are born like this and it is the parents fault.Now me and my brother are arguing about this.He says we are the ones that turned him that way.I know for a fact ,no way we did not.Since he could walk and not talk he would wear shirts on his head and no one knew why.When he got to the age to talk he told why, because he thought it was hair.Yeah if he wants a barbie at his age of 7 we do get it for him.We do try to interest him in a boy toy and that never works.So who knows he is my little love bug and I love him no matter what.I am just bothered that my closest brother, the one that calls me daily 3-4 times is now mad because he told me IF my son lived with him for 6 months he would be a boy after that.LMAO he needs mental help.
 
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December 16, 2008, 2:54 pm PST

MERRY CHRISTMAS DR PHIL AND FAM

My Fam and I would like to say Merry Christmas to you and your Fam.Christmas is about the closeness you share with your family and not what you can buy them.I am teaching my kids this as well.They still get a few things,but they must know you get what you get and to be happy with it or Santa will take it back and give it to another child who would be very thankful to receive the gifts they complain about.OH, one more thing Merry Christmas to everyone that reads this letter.
 
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