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July 18, 2007, 2:00 pm PDT

Emotional issues

There's a deeper reason why Katrina wants to go after Jay-Z.  She may have been emotionally damaged in her childhood.  Her parents may not have been very nurturing or loving towards her.  They might've pushed her away in favor of her other siblings.  Katrina has no self-esteem as a woman.  She's starving for attention, affection and validation from Jay-Z and put all of her hopes and future in him.  She's looking for him to help her escape her irrelvant life. 

When Jay-Z doesnt' respond to her, Katrina becomes desperate, jealous of Beyonce and then she becomes dangerous.  She wants Jay-Z to center his attentions on her. Katrina needs to tell the full story of her childhood and get to the root of her obsession with a therapist.  Then, steer her away from Jay-Z by getting her to do other constructive things with her time.

 
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August 11, 2007, 3:42 pm PDT

There's a demonic force that's controlling these pedophiles

We may never be rid of these pedophiles who are spreading like a pestilence.  I believe there's a demonic force that is controlling these pedophiles to do evil to children.  The rape of a child begets an adult who continues to rape.  The Enemy uses all kinds of weapons to shake up people's faith in God and causes the tearing up of a family, the dehumanizing of a victim and even destroy the Catholic church with sexual sin and other forms of blasphemy.  We are living in an age of evil and with this country as the new Babylon, it's going to get worse before it's gets better. 

 

If Dr. Phil wants to save Grace, start with her faith in God and in herself.  Otherwise, she'll either grow up to be a sexually active teenager and out of control.  She may grow up to be a sexual predator herself.

 
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August 11, 2007, 4:04 pm PDT

Grown children need to own up and step up

The reasons that moms do meddle is that the grown children don't want to live on their own and be responsible for what children/husband they bring into the family.  Now, if they want Mama to stop meddling into their business, for one, stop telling their personal business.  Second, stop living under her roof and trying to eat her cake and ice-cream, too.  Third and last, grown children need to be held accountable for their mess-ups and quit letting Mama come around to clean it up.  Lastly, women need to be selective in who they're sleeping with and have babies with.  Quit choosing broke-a@## scrubs with no job and no money. So you can stop running back to Mama for help.  Besides, what are you going to do when Mama's in her grave?  Dig her up?
 
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August 11, 2007, 4:52 pm PDT

You can't have your cake and eat it, too.

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Why can't you have both?  I am 38, my husband 30 and we have been together for 9 years.  The age difference is great for both of us and guess what...we have money too.  It wasn't always like that.  I made twice as much as he did, but I helped him see what possibilities there were for him.  Within two years my income looked like chump change.  Our income went back and forth for a few years between who was making more, but we continued to keep building the life we both wanted. 

 

We have found that if you treat each aspect of your life with the same importance you have all that you desire...Love and money.

 

I truly think people who are after just money have such a limited view of life in general.  How sad.

Why do you place so much emphasis on how much you make? Who cares about what you make. 

 

What about God and his divine principles?  What about your spritual investment?  Your money can't buy you a place at God's table or eternal life.  It can't buy you out of Hell, either.  Jesus told a rich merchant that he can't have two masters: God and money.  It is harder for a camel to go through an eye of an needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven.

 
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September 9, 2007, 12:48 pm PDT

Monday's Man Camp

There is the saying, "You get what you paid for"  Most women are so in love and so blind to these men's shortcomings and violent tendercies, they look the other way and would rather  marry them than being lonely.  Then, you have women who are "gold diggers" and care about only their husbands' salary and bank account.  They hold on to these adolescent fantasies of marrying well to be treated like princesses.  The warning signs were there before these women married them but they were ignored. Now, they are sorry for being in denial and want out.   I have no sympathy for them whatsoever.

 

These men are copying what they saw their fathers has done to their mothers when they were growing up.  If they saw that their Daddy gotten his way with threats and violence, they think it is okay to treat their own wives that way.  Then, there's the verbal abuse, the mind games and the cheating that most of them saw their daddies has done to their mamas.  Lastly, the men could be a product of a divorce and their daddies weren't there to teach them any appropiate leadership skills they need to be the head of their household.  They don't know how to be a good man to their wives.  The past created the men that they are.

 

I hope Dr. Phil will uncover their deep rooted, emotional problems of their past so they can learn that there are better ways to prove their manhood and still be loving husbands.

 

 

 
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November 8, 2007, 2:56 pm PST

The Dog's Tirade

He needs to come out of the closet and tell everybody who he really is... A bigot. He has serious issues with Black people.  I tell ya, ever since Mrs. Rosa Parks and Coretta Scott King had passed away, it's been open season on Black people.  White folks are angry at the way their president had lied to them, got their children killed for nothing in Iraq, they're mad about the recession, they're mad about their crappy jobs and making crappy pay, they're mad about their high-end debts, They're mad about the high taxes they pay. They're  mad because they can't control their children, they can't make their marriages work and they can't fix anything else in their lives that is broken.

 

Who should White people blame? They blame Black people for breathing the same air that they breathe and has to share this country with.  White people also blame the Latinos for invading their space, living their country and sucking up the economy.  White people has been trying for centuries to prove they are the superior race and they want to conquer all other races and force them into submission and assimulation.  Who inspired racist White people? The Romans, The Macedonians, The British, The Nazis, etc...

 

Let's be honest here, okay? Some of you, White folks secretly wished that Black people go back to Africa or tear up the document that President Lincoln signed over one hundred years ago, send Black people back to the South to be slaves again. Our very existence bothers the hell out of you.  You will never see Black people as your equal.  You will never respect Black folks who are as American as you.  You will never recognize the good and bravery of past and present Black folks who helped make this country.  We will be a constant thorn that pricks you over and over again.   Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream will never be realized until White folks make Black folks equal and valuable to them. 

 
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November 11, 2007, 9:30 am PST

Money Is...

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Doctor Fights Phil Will. Have I seen this before? No. But I will see it on Tuesday November 13th, 2007.------

See you on Tuesday November 13th, 2007. Sincerley Your. Russell Vlaanderen.------------------------------------

Money is the root of all evil.  It corrupts even the righteous and moralistic of people.  Two other evils: Greed and Covetness which encourages even two more evils: stealing and murder to get someone else's property, money and other materialistic things.  Remember the 80's?  Greed and corruption were considered the norm.  Twenty-five years later, nothing has changed.

 
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November 20, 2007, 3:48 pm PST

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""They're standing on the corner and they can't speak English. I can't even talk the way these people talk:
Why you ain't, Where you is, What he drive, Where he stay, Where he work, Who you be...
And I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk.
And then I heard the father talk.
Everybody knows it's important to speak English except these knuckleheads. You can't be a doctor with that kind of crap coming out of your mouth.
In fact you will never get any kind of job making a decent living. People marched and were hit in the face with rocks to get an education, and now we've got these knuckleheads walking around.
The lower economic people are not holding up their end in this deal.
These people are not parenting. They are buying things for kids.$500 sneakers for what ??
And they won't spend $200 for Hooked on Phonics.
I am talking about these people who cry when their son is standing there in an orange suit.
Where were you when he was 2 ??
Where were you when he was 12 ??
Where were you when he was 18 and how come you didn't know that he had a pistol ??
And where is the father ?? Or WHO is his father ?
People putting their clothes on backward: Isn't that a sign of something gone wrong?
People with their hats on backward, pants down around the crack, isn't that a sign of something ??
Or are you waiting for Jesus to pull his pants up ?
Isn't it a sign of something when she has her dress all the way up and got all type of needles [piercing going through her body?
What part of Africa did this come from??
We are not Africans. Those people are not Africans; they don't know a thing about Africa .
With names like Shaniqua, Taliqua and Mohammed and all of that crap, and all of them are in jail.
Brown or black versus the Board of Education is no longer the white person's problem.
We have got to take the neighborhood back.
People used to be ashamed. Today a woman has eight children with eight different 'husbands'-- or men or whatever you call them now.
We have millionaire football players who cannot read.
We have million-dollar basketball players who can't write two paragraphs. We, as black folks, have to do a better job. Someone working at Wal-Mart with seven kids, you are hurting us.
We have to start holding each other to a higher standard.
We cannot blame the white people any longer."  Bill Cosby

 

No where in history is any race, religion, ethnicity, whatever  free of bloodshed, hate, violence.  Even in Africa, same race, different tribes war against each other, participating in their own races rapes and murders. 

 

Until we, members of the human race, learn from past wrongs, these conversations will always exist.  And since we are imperfect, it seems that they always will. 

 

 

Who are you?  Why don't you tell who you are instead hiding behind a ridicious tirade that you're on.

You are generalizing Black people with your statements and you sound racist!!!  Are you trying to justify RACISM with other people's quotes?  YOU can't justify RACISM.  Either you're a sell-out, traitor or red-neck bigot.

 
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November 20, 2007, 3:51 pm PST

You want to go there! Let

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 I cannot believe you said this.. and you sit here pointing out white people to be racist. You have just proved my point in your lets be honest speech on Doctor Phil's board. I would like to say to you that You were not from AFRICA, and I dont think you would like it there. You also need to  read up on some of your history. Blacks owned slaves and sold their own people. White people were not the only slave owners in America and FYI there are no slaves in the south in these days and times so sending anyone to the south is  a  RIDICULOUS STATEMENT. You are clearly a racist.
 

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