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March 12, 2008, 8:34 am PDT

Fly Girls

These girls had an absolute right to wear the clothes they chose and board their flights.  Some of these flight attendants think they are gods and desperately need to be put in their place. 

 

I am personally outraged at the flight attendant's behavior towards the mother and toddler.  I tell you what, that is one airline that I will NEVER fly.  That woman should be fired and lose any accreditation she may have as a flight attendant.

 

I disagree with Dr. Phil on one point.  These women have EVERY RIGHT to sue these airlines and I personally hope they do.  Not to “cash in” but to teach these airlines a lesson.  Maybe then the airlines will deal with their psychotic, power hungry flight attendants and develop rules to protect the traveler instead of their staff!

 

 

 
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March 12, 2008, 8:35 am PDT

03/14 Dr. Phil Now: Fly Girls

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I feel that peek a boo cloths have no place on an airline.  If you want to advertise for sex or just boost your ego do it else where.  You will change your mind when you have kids.  The stars have more respect for them selves and others than our BROKEN teen and 20 yr old girls do. Morality is in the TOILET, what shame.  Young parents what are you Thinking???
As a young parent and professional, I dont see anything wrong with the clothing they choose.  I have more of a problem with how toy manufactors dress girls' dolls!
 
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March 12, 2008, 9:03 am PDT

03/06 Etiquette Dilemmas

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      Kyla, of risque dress notoriety, was taken off a Southwest Airlines flight because of the way she was dressed.  Threatening legal action, she said all she wanted was an apology.  The Dr. Phil Show put her on, and she got an apology from the airline, along with two free tickets to anywhere in the U.S.

      According to her statement, that should have settled the matter.  But in one of the most flagrant acts of hypocrisy I have ever seen on television, she vowed to continue her lawsuit.  Of course, she had help from that shyster of a lawyer that appeared with her.  (I guess she needs money to pay that character.)   

      Her claim that she is doing it for all women is nothing but cant and hypocrisy.  She didn't even begin to pull off the acting job.  It was obvious she didn't care about anyone but herself and money.  She showed herself to be deceitful and a liar. 

      I believe the airline's apology was sincere.  They showed they are a class act.  Kyla's lack of class in front of the world will hurt her credibility for years to come, and maybe forever.

       Shame on her for her hypocrisy!  

That poor girl is not a hypocrite.  She was publicly humiliated.  Even after a considerable amount of press, Southwest still refused to apologize for the way she was treated by there staff let alone take action against those responsible for the discrimination.  It wasn't until Dr. Phil intervened was the airline willing to offer an apology. I can’t say if it was sincere or not because I do not know the mindset of its author.  However, I am hesitant to believe the apology considering how long it took the airline to respond.  To me it sounded more like a set up against the girl, which Southwest was eager to participate to further humiliate her.

 

I sincerely hope she sues this airline and I hope as a result ALL airlines develop a set of FINITE set of rules for flyers and employees.  I have endured and witnessed my fair share of flight attendants on a power trip!

 

 
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March 13, 2008, 4:42 pm PDT

Underage Marriage - Bitter & Angry Mom

I record Dr. Phil since I work during the day and just watched this episode. I briefly reviewed some of the messages so I was a bit skeptical about the girl's story.

 

After I watched the show, there is NO DOUBT in my mind that Corina is telling the truth.  I believe 100 percent that poor girl was molested by the felon that her mother, the woman who should be protecting her, allowed into her home (and in her daughters bed).  The mom, Leslie, came off as being vindictive and cruel.  It seemed the only reason she is going after an annulment is because she wants revenge.  She is more concerned about blaming her daughter for being molested and justifying abandoning her children than taking responsibility for her part in the abuse and instead of prosecuting her husband.   She just wants her daughter to be as miserable as she is…its really sad!

 

I wish the VERY BEST for Corine and her husband Ryan.  She may only be 16 but she seemed very mature for her age.  I too am impressed with how well she has done despite all the obstacles life has given her.

 
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April 24, 2008, 1:32 pm PDT

#1 Priority of Parenthood is protecting your kids!

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From most of the commentary I have read to this point, alot of them have been "anti-mother," and perhaps, some of that 'anger' is justified.  Yet, before we "fry" the mothers, for their lack of involvement in the protection of their children, what about the fathers or the perpetrators of the abuse??  In a way, the mothers are just as 'abused' as the victims/survivors, the fear, helplessness, SHAME, guilt, etc., they face on a daily basis, is as paralyzing as the abuse perpetrated on their children.  It is the same ole, same ole, blame the victim mentality, if they would have done this, or they would have been more vigilant, this wouldn't have happened.  Hello!!  What about the abusers??!!  Where is their moral decency??  Why is it, that we seem to make excuses for the abuser, but not for mothers involved??  Instead, we seem to rush to assign blame to them, for their lack of protection of their children, when, in a large part, they are just as victiminized as the abused?  Just some questions that sprang to mind when I was reading through the commentary, up to this point. 

I agree that we shouldn't "fry" the mothers.  I also agree that our society has tendency to blame the victim which causes insult to injury for the victims and their families.  However, as the  mother of two boys (7 yrs and 1 yr), if anything like this ever happened to my boys I PRAY the police find the abuser before I do!   I can not comprehend why this mother didnt go to the police as soon as she got her first inclination that this could be going on.  This boy needs intense counseling and Grandpa NEEDS to be in jail!  I started teaching my oldest about "surprises are good; secrets are bad" and the "good touch/bad touch" when he was around 3.  After shows like this one, I want to lock my kids up in my house so no one can ever hurt them.  Which obviously is not an option.  So I do my best to watch for the "warning" signs and keep my kids informed about boundaries and how important it is to TELL MOMMY EVERYTHING!!!!  My heart ACHES for this poor boy.

 

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