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July 6, 2006, 7:55 pm PDT

What Should I Do?

 My boyfriend(19) and I(18) are going to be moving in together during college. He have spent a lot of time staying at each others house and stuff like that so we know how it is going to be. What I am worried about is that he wants me to be one of those 1950's "Obey the man of the house" kind of girlfriends. And that is ok with me when it comes to like cooking big meals and stuff, but he wants me to do everything...cooking, cleaning, laundry, go to school, and have a job. How am I supposed to do all that stuff at once? And if I can't how do I get him to help me do all that stuff?
 
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July 14, 2006, 10:45 pm PDT

I Need Some Help!

My boyfriend and I just got our new apartment and we are going to move in together soon, and I just found out that the person living upstairs from us is a 23yr old girl. Now i know my boyfriend and I have been cheated on enough times to now that i need to worry. but he keeps telling me that he wouldn't do that to me again and he wouldn't break my heart like that again, and I kind of believe him. but i don't know if he is telling the truth. should i go by his past or by what he is saying now? And if i go by his past and it turns out he really has changed then what do I do? Or if i go by what he is saying now and he hasn't really changed, then what do I do? I need help from someone, b/c my bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and I don't just want to throw it all away.
 
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October 29, 2007, 11:11 am PDT

Need Advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating of just about a year. We got engaged at 8months and we are very very happy together. We don't have fights that last more than about 10 min, we talk about our issues and we are very open with each other. The only problem is that a couple days ago I notice that there was something wrong with him and I asked him what it was. He told me that sometimes he thinks about his ex-girlfriend and that he still has feelings for her. I wasn't mad at him b/c I can't punish him for being honest, but it hurt a lot. Then he told me that lately his has been accidently calling him the ex-girlfriends name in his head. And he has done it a couple times out loud. This is only the icing on the cake. B/c i have been worried that he is second guessing the wedding b/c he doesn't seem to want to make plains and he doesn't seem very excited about it. Im not sure how to take his behaviors or what I should do about them. if anyone has any advice please respond. My email is: aublindberg@hotmail.com.

 
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October 4, 2008, 10:08 pm PDT

marriage problems

ok my husband and i got married on june 28, 2008. and we have been fighting ever since. before we got married life was perfect. we never had problems and didn't fight. but after the marriage everything changed. he has become controling and kind of an jerk. he doesn't want me to go with my friends or have fun without him there. and if i do go out he has to know where i am going, who i am with, and when i'll be home. he always throws this little "feel sorry for me" fits. he acts like a 5 yr old. i reall don't feel the same about him anymore and i am thinking about ending the marriage. but he wants to work it out. we both desided that we got married to young b/c i am almost 21 and he almost 20, but we don't want to devorce. i just don't know what to do anymore. im not sure if i love him anymore. he is just to different. so should i wait and try to work it out? or should i just run while i can? what should i do?
 

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