Dr Phil
My son was abusive to me, my ex husband wouldnt help, he only said " If you cannot handle him send him to me. " One night the police came and I lost my son. My ex never told my son he was wrong for hurting me. He is now 17, drinking and drugging, My little went with his dad due to therapist advise not to split them up. They were 11 and 13. I have not seen my older son in 4 1/2 years,. My ex brought him to court to testify against me at 13. The judge threw it out after I pleaded guilty, only because I saw the fear in my childs face at court and klnew that hjim testifing against me would harm him down the road. As I said, it was dismissed. My ex has been court ordered for many things which he does comply to. I have to make calls about sports etc. My younger son is on an IEP and last June he was to get 5x week tutoring, my ex went to the school and told them to drop that and put him in an extra math class ( which he is not weak in) the school did because my ex told them stories. My older son has 3.0 GPA and is a senior, he was honor roll the entire 10 years he lived wih me. My ex has disabilities and the school scored my sons test wrong, I caught and he did not. Teenage suicide is so high....my sons are brainwashed, not cared for, and have no one to turn to. Welcome to my life.... welcome to my fears and helplessness. My children will just another statstic....another victom of PAS and fear of a socipath (sp) father
