Messages By: vaughn15

Quote From: shamrock53

It's obvious what this guy's problem is - he is impotent - that is why he does not wish intimacy with his wife - not because she is overweight.  He uses that has an excuse.

Quote From: normanohio

No, the mother and daughter own the land jointly. 

 

The legal remedy for this situation would be for the daughter to petition the court to partition the land.

 

Doing business with a friend or family member can be a minefield, especially when there is a disfunctional person like Sonja involved.  

 

 

 

 

Quote From: keksews

 This woman is pure evil!!!  She is totally about controlling, dividing and ultimately destroying the relationships within her own family.   One day she will probably die an old, bitter woman ALONE!!!

Quote From: msoutthere

     I know how devestating it can be to lose your your family legacy and "willed" possessions to a sibling who want give up personal and owned possessions of the deceased parent.  In my case, my mother named my baby sister as "Executor" of her will, there were 4 other older children. We all played a very important part of our mothers life. We visited weekly and drove her to do her shopping and for doctor visits. We have weekly family dinners and birthday get togethers every other month. We all really loved one another and were always there for each other to lend a helping hand. When our mother passed, our baby sister, who immediately claimed our mothers (basement) apartment as off limits to the rest of her siblings, she even called the police to have us removed when we visited her one day to work on moms business and belongins. She wanted no help from any of us to move things along concerning the Will.  She would not probate the Willm she would not settle anything our mom had requested in her Will. She took us to court to make us pay back to the estate, the value of 4 cemetary plots our Mom had wanted us to have. The plots were next to and around her resting place. Our younger sister will not communicate with us and has kept everything our mom had wanted divided up and wanted us to have. And, to make it worse, our younger sister knew of our moms verbal wishes as well and the written ones. She has completely distant herself from any association with the rest of the family. We have tried to communicate with her but she refuses to talk about this issue with us. We are so hurt and have had to get use to the fact that our moms legacy and life, with pictures and personal items, will never be in our lives again. It is destroying us mentally and so unfair to our children and grandchildren.

Quote From: ec2kids

My heart really goes out to SherryLynn.  I know all too well how she is feeling and has felt for so long.  I was molested by my father from age 9 to age 14.  I told my mother one night right after it happened and she flipped out on him.  However, she didn't call the police until she found out that it had happened more than just that one time. 

Even then she called the police 4 days later and a restraining order was put in place.  I am the oldest of 3, a boy and a girl.  Since both my siblings did not understand what was going on, they blamed me for their dad being gone and begged my mother to bring him home.  (I don't blame them, they didn't understand).  One morning I woke up and went downstairs to my mother's bedroom b/c I was in a great mood and wanted to make breakfast for the whole family.  I turned the corner to see my father, mother, brother and sister laying bed laughing like a big happy family.... that I wasn't apart of anymore.  From then on, my entire related family told me I was crazy, mental and making things up b/c I wasn't getting my way.  I stood my ground and never let them tell me that I was lying but I was the loneliest person in the entire world at age 14.  My mother blamed me for my dad molesting me saying that I enticed him b/c I was a slut.  I was the whore, I wanted the attention, and he was a male and he was weak so it was my fault.  My father ended up living with us until after I was married and pregnant at age 17.  Everyday my husband and mother would go to work leaving him there with me alone.  He would call me names and tell me I was nothing but a lazy bitch who did nothing but lay down for men.  No one believed me until my husband snuck home one day and heard my dad.  He convinced me to go to the family counselor (which we had to lie to b/c our parents threatened us) and turn him in.  He didn't turn himself in, instead he ran from the police... and still lived in the same house with my mom.  He finally got caught a year later, only to received longer probation, until he was UAed and they found cocaine in his system did he go to jail for 3 years. 

I completely sympathized with the daughter and balled my eyes out throughout both shows.  It was almost a relief to know that I wasn't the only one, yet I would never wish what I had to go through on anyone else.  I have gone through 5 counselors, and I haven't found one that I can trust yet.  I haven't been helped with my issues either and I have two boys with my husband.  I wish that somehow I could reach out and help SherryLynn and maybe she can help me get better. 

Sitting there watching her mother was like looking at my own mother.  They act so blind and stupid, in front of people.  That woman knew exactly how her husband was and is, but for the simple fact that she'd have to find a way to support herself she stays with him.  My mother did that very same thing, that and to torture me probably.  I was disgusted by that man and his wife.  I think SherryLynn and her husband were so very strong not to jump up and beating the living mess out of that man.  I know I wanted to and I don't even know that guy.  I just hope that my story and her story help out anyone else out there who needs it.  This is sad and the worst part is that little boy who has to go through the same trauma of not really knowing what happened was wrong and how to deal with it.  I will be praying for this family to heal and for that grandfather to rot in hell along with the rest of the pedophiles in this world.

Quote From: jpolz44

Amazing resemblance

 

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