Messages By: bdeartrm

I feel that it became very clear that Christy is a very troubled individual.  She seems to have let her past demons come out and is now seeing abuse in every situation.  Yes, I believe that pornography is devastating to a relationship.  I also have seen first hand how a computer can be infected with it due to malware when my 9 year old son innocently "googled" his favorite Japanese cartoon series.  Wow, was that a learning experience and I learned very quickly about child controls and such.  Not to say I  believe that Stacy's husband is an innocent and was looking at Anime. 

My personal opinion is that Christy needs to seek a different therapist if she is having so much trouble resolving her inner conflict that it is harming others.

Stacy, take the help that Dr. Phil offers for your children, so that the cycle of abuse does not continue. Yes, they are abused, but by thier aunt, not thier parents.  Not sure if this has been mentioned, but a protection order against your sister wouldn't be a bad idea.

Actually the original reason for the phone call, as I recall, is that Stacey had found a pornographic DVD in the trunk of her husbands car.  She asked her sister to take the computer to see if there was anything else further for her to be concerned about.  Stacey never mentioned child pornography. That was Christie's accusation.

This is the question that is nagging in my mind.  Dr. Phil asked shannon why she didn't seek to gain custody, even feeling that her ex is the reason her for broken nose and blackened eyes?  He admitted to it.

At the very end, she is still saying she wants visitation so her other daughter can get to know the one in this animals custody.  WHY, is she still not seeking custody?  /boggle

This guy's way of dealing with issues is to cloud them by trying to throw blame back at those that are confronting him.  He needs to grow up and learn to be a man, not an adolescent.

Remember, when you are pointing the finger, there are at least 3 more fingers pointing back at you.

Sister, I have been there, you need to get out and find a real man.

I personally feel this is a case of small town minds and loose tongues.  Here is a woman that ended up marrying someone that was her teacher in highschool. Does that mean there was impropriety in that relationship?  That was never mentioned, but a small town in the bible belt, beleive me, there were alot of folks talking.  now don't you think the children of these parents hear stuff? So this teacher was allready a pariah, because of whom she married.  Yah, her replies were evasive and very "legal" but she is an intelligent woman that has learned, from years of defending herself; and has mimiced her legal team.  The boys, all three.. by admission or lie detector have shown that they were lying.

No amount of monetary comensation will ever help this woman or her family overcome the injustice that has been done to them in that "peyton place" town of theirs.