Messages By: mary40inmebane

 I wish I looked more like the ethnic group I am. I am Dutch/Indonesian and get mistaken every day for Hispanic, Phillipino, Native American and more.

These women should be proud to be Asian and changing what you look like does not change where you

come from or who you are inside.

No matter who you are you should be proud of your heritage.

I agree with you. The supreme court has the authority to have this woman sterlized. She has a severe

problem and her children had to suffer due to this. There is no amount of therapy that would help Tracy because she wont admit to herself that was she did was wrong. I believe that the doctor and everyone involved should do what ever is necessary to prevent Tracy from having anymore children and her existing children need to go into therapy so they can begin to heal. Children do nothing so bad that they deserved to be abused or mistreated by any means.

I had an ex husbad that drank from the time we were married (1984) till the time I left him(1997). I know how hard it can be on the children. Thank god my children were young but they still remember to this day.

I left him 7 times to wake him up. It never happened. It wasn't until I left and hid his children from him for 5 years that it finally woke him up. By that time it was too late. He did not have any kind of relationship with his children until they decided to give him another chance after being sober for 5 years. The children should not have to police their father and the wife should take her kids and leave. If he really wants to get help he will . The only one's who are suffering are the children. The have no life. Parents should take care of their children and not the other way around. These parents who drink to excess should wake up before they loose the only precious things they have ,THE CHILDREN.