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November 19, 2007, 7:39 pm PST

11/15 A Daughter in Danger? Part 2

Quote From: doodi20

i agree with you Julia 100% because i was born in israel too and lived there for 32 years before coming to the US. i think that the next show will be bringing her body to the US. the american people don't know the muslims mentality and don't understand how dengerous is her situation. if i was her mother, i will get on the plan and get her back, whether she like it or not. it's a life of death situation, sooner or later.
But she's 18!!!!  Legally, her mother has no authority to "make" her come home, unfortunately.
 
November 20, 2007, 11:35 pm PST

Context,

Quote From: michaelac

Do you know what "in context means"? It means IN ARABIC, with the explanation from the scholars (people who are studied in Islam, jurisprudence, fiqh, Arabic language, history, etc) based on the hadith that show when the verse was revealed and what was happening when it was revealed. That is the context I am talking about not the verse that comes before and the verse that comes after the one Valeria is referring to.

 

The "hunting of Jews" is based on a specific battle fought between the Muslims and a specific Jewish tribe. This is an established historical fact and anyone who has actually studied Islam knows that this was not a mandate for all time but for a specific tribe who broke a treaty with the Muslims. Do you want me to find the actual hadith on the subject? BTW, I am not hiding the fact that God commanded those to fight against this tribe but it was a specific case as I mentioned.

 

I already posted tons of stuff on beating women. It is ludicrous and not supported by the Quran or any hadith. Period.

 

There is also no text about "killing infidels" in the Quran in fact it talks about the EXACT opposite. I have also posted several statements on this with verses from the Quran. Search my name and you can see those.

 

No one Muslim omits verses from the Quran. This is considered leaving the fold of Islam. That is definitely NOT what I am saying or have said in these posts.

 

The Quran is the revelation given to Muhammad in Arabic anything else is not the Quran. This is a major difference between Islam and specifically Christianity as you mentioned. We do not have the right to attempt to change Islam because we might not like something. This then turns from worship of God to worship and following one's own desires.

 

As a convert, I can tell you that people convert after VERY serious study. It is not a lifestyle you adopt just for a change in atmosphere, to snag a man or whatever crazy ideas people may have out there. It is about true belief and when we have questions we can ask a knowledgeable person whether at the mosque or otherwise and there are always answers to those questions. Those answers are based on PROOF. There is a huge emphasis on this in Islam. No one can say something about Islam without textual evidence. The textual evidence is Quran and hadith (recorded sayings and actions of the Prophet).

 

I know exactly what the dictionary says "context" means.

 

Sounds like "in context" for Islam has it's own meaning.  And, unless a person reads the Quran in Arabic, and without "explanation from the scholars (people who are studied in Islam, jurisprudence, fiqh, Arabic language, history, etc.)", based on the hadith, they are taking it out of context.  Why then is the Quran translated into English or other languages?

 

A person can simply read other religions' books without all this, and in different languages/translations. 

 

BTW, no one has the right to change Christianity and no one can change Christianity.  Also, one can get a very good understanding of the Bible without reading it in the original languages, Hebrew (Torah and rest of Tanakh) or Greek (New Covenant).

 

Perhaps you and others (scholars) should teach what you've said to those who call themselves Moslems and take the violence of the Suras literally or whole countries (Islamic) whose cultural practices either transcend or ignore Quran or take it literally, or perhaps rather than "literally" your wording would be "out of context'.  World terrorism that is associated with Islam would stop--perhaps.

 

Why have not the millions (or the billion) of peaceful, non-violent Moslems put a stop to the highjacking of this religion by  the "few" radicals and extremists?  If a "few" persons of other religions highjacked a religion (let's just say Buddhism, Hinduism, Christianity, etc.) and caused a bad name for it throughout the civilized world by violent acts of terrorism against other nations and through practices that are abhorred in that religion, I believe their religious leaders would speak out to them and against them and seek to repair the damage.  I believe they would publicly distance themselves from the terrorists, particularly after major attacks.  I believe they would go on the airwaves, place adds in newspapers, magazines, etc., develop many web sites, blog on websites, volunteer to speak at schools and places of worship, whatever it takes to dispel the notion that their religion is one of violence.  When we don't speak up, it appears we are in agreement.  At least you are speaking out on these boards about some issues...

 
November 20, 2007, 11:55 pm PST

The Race Card???

Quote From: pawsonya

 

Can we agree that the word "muslim" is NOT describing a race but in fact a religious choice?

 

Why do you keep accusing people of racism?

I concur.  WHY is it racist [to disagree]?  I've seen this (racist reference) several times on these boards.  Why couldn't we leave race out of it?  There's enough other "stuff"...  Meanwhile, a girl has made a horrible mistake, one that she'll probably regret for the rest of her life.

 

Here we go again - playing the "race" card...   And as always, it clouds other issues.

 
November 21, 2007, 9:19 pm PST

There was no justification for your treatment.

Quote From: ummsamir

We demand freedom of religion because that is what happens in a free country - you can worship as you like. Every other faith demands it as well, atheists and satanists can have gathering places or whatever the correct term is (sorry i don't know the correct term).

 

We are discriminated against and we should know the way to report those acts. The fact that I have had my hijab almost ripped off my head, I have been spit on, pushed, sworn at, told I was the devil and many many more things just for walking by. I have had my car vandalized as well!! We are not making it up, thinsg like this happen in tolerant places like canada and the US. Why should we, or any other person who is discrimiated against, just stand by and take it??

 

In Egypt there is a HUGEEEEEEEEEE Christian population. They have the exact same rights as anyone else! Egypt in itself is one of the LEAST islamic countries (per sey) around! Men aren't even allowed to grow beards for the sake of modesty in an 'islamic' country.

 

Clearly, you have it out for Islam and Muslims. I don;t know what has prompted you to be so aggressive and hateful - i hope you can one day get over it.

That nearly made me sick that you (and presumably) others have been treated so badly.  It is abominable, inhuman, hateful, cowardly, and totally unjustifiable.  Shame on them!  Those people will reap what they sow.  You should report those acts to the police.  Also, you could take someone to "small claims" court for harrassment and assault.

 

Egypt has changed greatly since I was last there (I hear), and the Christian population is down.  Extremists are there too, though without the foothold (or stronghold) they have in some other countries.

 
November 23, 2007, 12:14 am PST

Race not a factor...

Quote From: letasc

Dr. Phil never said anything about his race. That is your wrong interpretation of things. He did point out facts like her being in the middle of a war zone and if thats not reason to worry enough then nothing is. He also pointed out the fact that shes all way in another country away from anyone she knows...reason 2 to worry. And...........he pointed out the fact that her family has heard him verbaly abuse her on the phone, with her family sitting right there. Race never came up. I am so sick of people accusing people of being rasist when they never say anything to show this. I recommend you start tapeing the shows from now on and watching them a few dozen times before you post any more crap.

I agree.  I never heard Dr. Phil refer to Abdullah's race or allude to it.  BTW, what is it?  Arab is not a "race"; Palestinian is not a "race".  I never thought of  "race"  with this story, but people keep referring to it as a racial matter.  There's enough other stuff in the mix (i.e. culture, religion) without posters calling others racist because they disagree with them, or post something about the culture or religion.   If she had flown to Australia or Russia at age 18 to be with someone she met on the web at age 16; her family did not know him or his family;  he was rude, crude, pompous; his family was involved in flying her there, thus not respecting her mother, etc. her mother would still be very upset and fearful. 

 

Again, I just don't see race in this equation.

 
November 23, 2007, 12:20 am PST

Part 3 will Air Monday, November 26

Quote From: sml01csl

 Does anyone know when the last part of this show is going to air? I saw the previews for when she is back in the U.S. but I didn't hear when that episode will air.....thanks!
The show will air this coming Monday at whatever time you normally get Dr. Phil.
 
November 26, 2007, 7:49 pm PST

Another Boyfriend so soon????

Quote From: benedictine

Why is Kayherin so quick to get into another relationship.
Benedictine
My sentiments exactly.  I read and read many posts searching for someone to question this.  While it's a great relief that she's back in the U.S.--the most important thing, it sounds that she is in another relationship already.  I don't think that is wise.  Appears as if there is an emotional problem with this girl, er I mean young woman--she desperately needs or seeks attention and/or love.  Also, when you're "so in love" for 2 years, you don't fall out of love overnight (even with mistreatment), but certainly not in love with someone else in 2 or 3 weeks--even at age 18.  I wonder if it is a smokescreen of some sort...
 
November 27, 2007, 10:39 pm PST

Amen!!!

Quote From: lori5983

What ever happened to respecting your elders.  If that little twit of a d-i-l ever talked to me that way I would wash her mouth out with soap.  Did her mother not teach her anything? And the son should have said "Don't talk to my mother that way."  And  told his mother "Don't talk to my future wife that way." and nipped it all in the bud long before it got out of hand.  He needs to grow a backbone.  And they ALL need a class on respect and consequences.
Amen!!!   I totally agree with all but washing out her mouth...  Then she'd foam at the mouth for sure...
 
November 27, 2007, 11:21 pm PST

Pretty is as Pretty Does

How sad this whole situation was/is.  It really stinks!  What happened to "honor your mother..."?  What happened to mutual respect?  Compromising?  Forgiveness?

 

Michelle would be a beautiful girl (woman) if she were even simply "pretty" internally.  Instead, she exhibited hate, spite, extreme selfishness, wrath, bitterness, unforgiveness, pettiness, stubbornness, inability or failure to admit wrongdoing,  disrespect for her husband by the disrespect shown his mother, and on and on.  This totally takes away from her appearance.

 

I don't see how the wedding day could be joyful knowing that the groom's mother was banned from it.  It would affect most people the entire honeymoon.

 

The bigger problem is her husband, Jay's.  I can't imagine how a man could allow one person to isolate him from his mother and family; to disrespect his mother like that; to agree to the wedding ban for her.  He could have taken charge, telling both his mom and his fiancee' to back off from insulting each other.  He could have chosen to have a separate relationship with his mother, keeping the contact with her.  Jay, you only get one mother in life.

 

I missed part 1, but can tell Jane is no saint.  Still, respect should be shown to one's mother and mother in-law, and she did say she was sorry.  Her therapist said she's changed and has been working really hard.  I agree with those who believe she should "move on"--leave them totally alone.  They don't want her in their life.  He will regret it one day and come running back.  Hopefully it won't be too late.

 

Michelle's mother should be very ashamed--her daughter gave (gives) the appearance she has not been reared properly (called "home training" when I was growing up).  It reflects unfavorably on her mother. 

 

Where are the fathers???

 

What a complicated mess!!!  Will pray for them...

 

 

 

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