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October 5, 2007, 1:33 pm PDT

10/05 Follow-Ups

Wonder why they all didnt go on the trip together? Congrats to the housemates who overcame thier fears!
 
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October 5, 2007, 1:37 pm PDT

10/05 Follow-Ups

Mondays show looks exciting! Wonder why they want to get married again? If they think they could work things out I guess the question is why did they get a divorce? Hope they find a way to prove thier point to each other without all the drama!
 
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October 5, 2007, 1:41 pm PDT

10/05 Follow-Ups

The deaf/blind triplet story is heart wrenching! I remember watching that show and have wondered about the marriage and the other child more than the triplets. Fabulous reviews! Dr. Phil you do great work! You have to sleep better than anyone on the planet!
 
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October 5, 2007, 1:46 pm PDT

10/05 Follow-Ups

Glad to see they actually got to use the money we sent! We will continue to believe in your wonderful babies! Best of luck to you!
 
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October 5, 2007, 2:20 pm PDT

10/05 Follow-Ups

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Great question! Never saw an answer did I miss it or was there one?

 

Read it and find out!

 

 
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October 5, 2007, 3:06 pm PDT

YOU KNOW

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IOMPLE,  My mom isn't on this planet any more, I miss her, and I LIVE with the absolute horror that my sister says this stuff like Meagan says about her mom.  EVERYTHING that happens to my sister as a CHILD OR ADULT apparently is my mothers Fault.  (NOT)

  I remember mom's pain when she was alive and the way she tried over and over to get through to my sister, and my sister just threw it in her face for anything she could, ANDMOM didn't deserve it,BUT went back for more cause SHE LOVED HER CHILD.  I have children, I understand that love.

all my mom ever did was love all of us kids the VERY BEST and DO EVERYThing she could do to ensure we had a happy good life

PLUS I work with children that HAVE been horribly abused in all kinds of ways, and to see ANYONE in Meagan's shoes GRIPE.... THINK NOT  would love to see the little drama queen tell her sniffling tale to these kids.

SO YES, YOU GET THE ANGER,, I obsolutely can't stand it when I see  young people  whose parent worked there ass off for them) sit there and talk about a parent that loves them!

AND i see the pain my sister lives all the time now that she's wiser, but STILL will talk about mom like a dog.  ITS WRONG

Both Megan and your sister are wrong to speak of their mother that way! You know that you had a good mother and that is what matters. As children we learn how to behave. Were you raised by a single mom? I could be wrong, however I have found that a lot of times siblings have similar views as you and your sis when raised by a single mom. Allow me to clarify... Single mothers almost always feel responsible(even if they arent) fo the break up of parents, Which causes them to overcompensate. They allow the children to get away with more and try to make up for the absent parent constantly blaming themself for all mistakes made by the child also. Lots of times this causes the reaction your sister has. Where you and I see it as she has tried to do everything she can to make things good for you, your sister blames her because she is following her lead. IF and only IF that is the case then your mom is responsible. As a single mother I felt that way and my therapist taught me that what happen to your mom would happen to me if I didnt stop. If that isnt the case, I still believe you could benefit from therapy. I think everyone needs a person to confide in that is not part of their life(therapist, pastor, internet friend) just helps to vent. Send me a message anytime and good lusk with your sister. Not changing her, just not allowing her to fill you with so much anger, let it consume her if she lets it, but you let it go for you and your mom. Best wishes! I hope you didnt think I was trying to offend you in my reply, really not my style and I apologize if it was taken offensively!
 
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October 6, 2007, 2:58 pm PDT

10/01 Jena 6 Continues

I tried hard to make a decision about what to say about this show. I am confused about why Mr. Bell is still in jail. If he is there because of probation on a previous charge, I believe he should be there. If he is there because of the attack on Mr. Barker and he had 4 previous charges that weighed in on the decision for him to be there, then it is a question. If the charges were dropped, then they should not keep him in jail. I cant say that I do or dont believe the justice system is racially challenged.

My daughters father is an African American, he shot his best friend (by accident), he died instantly. He served three years in prison for involuntary manslaughter in Illinois. A man from the same town that I live in accidently shot his neighbor while cleaning his gun and this man is white, he has now been in prison for six years. This was in Kentucky. He was charged with the same crime, this man is white. Different states have different laws. I think what the boys in Jena did to Justin is horrible no matter the color of their skin. I also believe that whoever hung the nooses from the "white tree" as a prank has learned to hate, I dont think it is funny in least. I also believe that by hanging them there they were attemping to seriously threaten the African American students of that school to stay away. I believe that any student that sat under that tree while the nooses were hanging there, without taking them down, was standing behind that threat. They should be better edjucated on what happen to the ancestors of their peers. I cant even begin to have a theory of solution to the hate that exists in this country, but I know it is very alive.

I want the world to wake up and see that people are people and no one is better than anyone else. We dont get to choose what race we are, we simply are what we are. People need to grow up and not act like children. The crime that occured in Jena was between children, but those children learned that hate from people who had strong inpacts on their lives, adults. It is sad that in this day and age that we still have ao much hatred in our country when we are all created equal. The Bible says God created all men equal and he will deal with those who teach their children differently. The adults that are teaching these things were once children too, I hope someday that hate will die. God bless us all.

 
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October 18, 2007, 10:31 am PDT

The Men Need Bashing

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All,

 

Is it just me or does it seem that "Man Camp" has become "Man bashing Camp"?  All we see is Dr Phil going agressively at only one side -- the guys.  It seems like everything that ever happened is blamed on the guys by both the wives and Dr Phil.  Admittedly, they are jerks and it is called "Man Camp", but a relationship in crisis has contributions from both sides.  He points out how terrible it is for men to be calling their wives names, but ignores the video of the wives doing the exact same thing.  The wives secretly look in on their husbands bad mouthing the spouses and comment on how they feel about that,  but when the wives do virtually the same thing at the end, the men aren't given the same opportunity.  There's comment and feedback given on what the women want from the men but not much on what the men need from their wives.  If you want to help a couple, help both sides.  And why deliberately provoke conflict by sending the women out to celebrate the birthday when most couples like to go out as a couple on birthdays.  I'd probably react the same way -- I'd be royally ticked.  I'm just plain old disappointed with where this is going.

Dr Phil did address that the women are provking. He told Karla she was an alcoholic drug addict on more than one occation. He told Danielle she was provoking Jack and needed a better plan because she would loose. He made Kim watch the video of arguing with Jim in the backyard and went over that with her. Provoking an arguement and exploding after you have been treated like crap for a week are not quite as serious as beating your wife to "feel better" as Jack put it. Alcoholism on Karlas part was an entire show. After the show she has been involved in councilling for herself and their marriage. I think that Man Camp is a good name for this show. No one has the right to put their hands on another person.
 
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October 18, 2007, 10:41 am PDT

SIL

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 Could you please email me what SIL means? I know it sounds completely stupid, esp. internet-wise, but I am curious...my email address is ldhkah@comcast.net.

Thanks, Lisa

Sister in law
 
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October 18, 2007, 10:58 am PDT

Shouldnt down play feelings of others, how would you feel?

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Just finished watching man camp. Yes i understand it is MAN CAMP. However, there are two people in the marriage. Does Kim ever do anything wrong? All I've heard from her so far is poor me. At least the other women have realized that they have not been perfect, and that they have faults. Boy, I'm glad my partner isn't as perfect as Kim. I know I'm not perfect. I make mistakes and so does my husband. Jeez Kim, I'm glad I'm not your partner. Good luck Jim.
Good people get in abusive relationships all the time. Jim has issues from his past that make him who he is today. Now he is dealing with that. Kim has issues too. Kim said all her life people have talked down to her calling her fat and stupid. That is why she thought nothing of it when Jim did it too. Finally she realized she doesnt deserve it. When Jim saw how bad it really hurt her he realized he didnt want to make her feel like that. Kim is a "fixer". Always trying to make everyone else better and neglecting her own needs. My mother is like Kim. She sets back and gets her feelings hurt and when she cant take anymore she blows up. I think it is because she believes the things that people say to her. Kim you are beautiful and have a huge heart. Pay no attention to people that only see the outside and judge by that. God is the only one who can judge and God wants all of his children to be happy and confident. He is our father, as a mother you know what you want for your children, thats what our father wants for us. Jim loves you and he understands how you feel now. I hope you two can continue what you have learned and have the best life you imagine. God bless you and good luck!
 

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