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February 16, 2009, 3:42 pm PST

02/16 Growing Up Too Fast?

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Her Mother has NO CLUE thats it. She was driven me crazy..  She needs a Mother that says No you can,t. Go to school and see what she has on...My daughters school  had a dress code. Thongs are fine just keep them in your pants.
lol... I had a dress code too and there's no way of bringing any kind of " changing clothes" with me. Would NEVER get out the door........ And... I don't think thongs are good for that age AT ALL, wait till their out of the house. Then, they can do what they want.
 
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February 16, 2009, 3:49 pm PST

02/16 Growing Up Too Fast?

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I know this probably won't be too popular an opinion.  However  the Mother on this episode could have been a little more appropriately dressed.  I think she contributes to the dress seductively message when she wears skirts that ride up when she sits. 

 

I really don't think she heard Dr. Phil's message. 

The mother is NEVER going to get it....I don't care what you try, it's never gonna to sink in.... and not only her attire, but just her whole demenor....just smiling the whole time, seems like maybe she was a fluze at Demi's age too... She has no clue....We should look back at the mothers backround and just put her on the show. God, help the father..... and all.
 
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February 17, 2009, 3:54 am PST

02/16 Growing Up Too Fast?

Quote From: jbrual

How could you tell from one hour of television that a 14 year old child is slutty ?

please tell me.
Because that makes absolutely no sense.

Anyways with myself being a fresh new product of the public school system I can say everything that poster said is correct.

The mean girl does exist and calls other girls sluts, whores and other things for no real reason.

And during school you have to get used to it, though I'm not a girl I've just seen it to many times during my last 4 years.

Hi... I could tell in 2 minutes, didn't even take an hour. And I bet the sister has never been called a slut or a whore. And Demi loves to be called that.......  What's up with that??? Your only called those names if you present yourself that way and they have a reason to call you that.  And you're just doing all that for the attention of boys and believe me, that WILL bite her in the butt eventually. That's all boys are looking for is sex and even though demi said that would never happen to her, I'm sure it will. And being the way she is, some nutcase might stalk her and could do some bad stuff without her approval. Hopefully not, but guys are only after one thing, and with demi, it's right in front of their face. So good luck to you too... be careful.
 
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February 17, 2009, 4:05 am PST

02/16 Growing Up Too Fast?

Quote From: needlelady22

 As us "older folk" will remember this problem is very old.  In 1972 there were a couple of girls in my high school who dressed like Demi did with the same reaction from the rest of us.  If I bad mouthed my parents I would have been "buried" in the front yard.   Parents need to be parents not friends to their childern.  They are too young and inexperenced to make all the decisions they need to.  Childern are also only childern for a few years, there is no need to rush adulthood which could last 50 plus years.  I also blame the print media and tv for pushing this also.  Teenagers looking sexy on covers of magazines geared to that age is not helping the problem.   Parents also consider this please---  It has always been a well known fact that the preverts are everywhere you never can tell who they are.  Don't let your daughter become a victim.  They do go after girls who dress like Demi because they believe they can get "somewhere" with them.

I just sent a message similar to yours about the perverts. They are out there and they're looking for someone just like Demi. Yes, it is an old problem and will be for the rest of enterniny. I was somewhat like Demi at her age but my parents were very strict also. I was in a Catholic School with the uniforms and would never even think about taking a change of chothes with me. That would never fly. And I also would be buried alive if I talked that way to my parents. I said "Geeez" one time and my mother slapped me because it was too close to Jesus's name. But, I still got pregnant at 15 even with strict parents. But the men will always be out there and they're only after one thing, I dont care what age they are either. I am now married to the man that was the father (had to give her up for adoption tho) and he's still the same way after 35 yrs.
 

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